New Hope Community Life

New Hope Members

2009-12-26T00:26:00.003-05:00

We had a great time getting acquainted with Adam and Jackie Stevens on December 20. And we'd like to take the next step with them. We are encouraging all of New Hope to prayerfully consider how God is leading and be a part of the gatherings on the weekend of January 2 & 3. During those gatherings you will have the opportunity to vote. We are asking that all participate (whether you are a member or not), so we can have as much feedback as possible to share with Adam and Jackie.

There will be ballots for both members and non-members alike, so join us and share you thoughts.

The board has spent much time considering this clergy couple and we are looking forward to all that God is going to do in 2010.

Upcoming at New Hope

2009-12-16T21:39:00.001-05:00

Exciting News from New Hope’s Board!

This Sunday, December 20, we welcome Adam Stevens, New Hope’s potential pastor. Adam will speak at one combined gathering on Sunday at 10.30a and we’ll hear from Jackie via video (NO SATURDAY GATHERING). There will be regular classes for our kids.

Then we’ll all hang out afterwards for a Chili Potluck. During the potluck we’ll have a Q&A with Adam. Chili will be provided; bring a salad or dessert to share.

Also, join us on Thursday, December 24, for the Christmas Eve Gathering.

Happy Thanksgiving, Everyone!

2009-11-25T06:52:00.002-05:00

A Prayer of Self-Dedication

2009-11-12T08:53:00.000-05:00

Almighty and eternal God, so draw our hearts to you, so guide our minds, so fill our imaginations, so control our wills, that we may be wholly yours, utterly dedicated unto you; and then use us, we pray you, as you will, and always to your glory and the welfare of your people; through our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Amen.

God Offers

2009-10-28T18:12:00.002-04:00

In Uncertainty, God offers Faith.

In Anxiety, God offers Calm.

In Confusion, God offers Clarity.

In Spinning, God offers Rest.

In Fear, God offers Strength.

In Insecurity, God offers Solid Ground.

In Pressure, God offers Breath.

Every Morning We Will Raise

2009-10-23T07:21:00.000-04:00

Every morning we will raise
to our God our songs of praise.
Every morning we will raise
to our God our songs of praise.

With God's kind protection blessed,
sweet and deep has been our rest.
In the morning we will pray
God's protection for this day.

What this day will bring to pass,
gladness or sorrow we cannot guess.
You, who give the light divine,
shine on us, Christ Jesus, shine.

Then, when comes the dark of night,
all with in us still shall be bright;
you will bring your peace and love,
radient gifts sent down from above.

Music: John B. Dykes, (19thC)
Words: William H. Furness (19thC) adapted
Sequence: Cathouse Pandemonium, Ltd.

Bring the Rain

2009-10-20T08:00:00.001-04:00

James Begins This Weekend

2009-10-14T14:23:00.005-04:00

This weekend we begin a series from the Book of James. This weekend we'll look at James 1:2-18, "Trials and Temptations."

Here is the passage from the Message:

2-4Consider it a sheer gift, friends, when tests and challenges come at you from all sides. You know that under pressure, your faith-life is forced into the open and shows its true colors. So don't try to get out of anything prematurely. Let it do its work so you become mature and well-developed, not deficient in any way.

5-8If you don't know what you're doing, pray to the Father. He loves to help. You'll get his help, and won't be condescended to when you ask for it. Ask boldly, believingly, without a second thought. People who "worry their prayers" are like wind-whipped waves. Don't think you're going to get anything from the Master that way, adrift at sea, keeping all your options open.

9-11When down-and-outers get a break, cheer! And when the arrogant rich are brought down to size, cheer! Prosperity is as short-lived as a wildflower, so don't ever count on it. You know that as soon as the sun rises, pouring down its scorching heat, the flower withers. Its petals wilt and, before you know it, that beautiful face is a barren stem. Well, that's a picture of the "prosperous life." At the very moment everyone is looking on in admiration, it fades away to nothing.

12Anyone who meets a testing challenge head-on and manages to stick it out is mighty fortunate. For such persons loyally in love with God, the reward is life and more life.

13-15Don't let anyone under pressure to give in to evil say, "God is trying to trip me up." God is impervious to evil, and puts evil in no one's way. The temptation to give in to evil comes from us and only us. We have no one to blame but the leering, seducing flare-up of our own lust. Lust gets pregnant, and has a baby: sin! Sin grows up to adulthood, and becomes a real killer.

16-18So, my very dear friends, don't get thrown off course. Every desirable and beneficial gift comes out of heaven. The gifts are rivers of light cascading down from the Father of Light. There is nothing deceitful in God, nothing two-faced, nothing fickle. He brought us to life using the true Word, showing us off as the crown of all his creatures.

Canticle 18 A Song to the Lamb

2009-10-09T07:10:00.000-04:00

Splendor and honor and kingly power *
are yours by right, O Lord our God,

For you created everything that is, *
and by your will they were created and have their being;

And yours by right, O Lamb that was slain, *
for with your blood you have redeemed for God,

From every family, language, people, and nation, *
a kingdom of priests to serve our God.

And so, to him who sits upon the throne, *
and to Christ the Lamb,

Be worship and praise, dominion and splendor, *
for ever and for ever more.

Glory to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit
as it was in the beginning, is now, and will be for ever. Amen.

Living Wall

2009-10-06T10:17:00.003-04:00

This is CRAZY! You can check out this HUGE living wall in Pittsburgh at the PNC building.The 2,380 sq foot living wall is soil based and includes many regional plants, all acquired locally within 500 miles of downtown Pittsburgh. It's made up of 602 2×2 ft square panels of life.

And it's not just for show. It was designed for beauty as well as energy reduction. As of September 23, the panels reduced the temperature of the building, with preliminary studies showing that the wall behind the panels is 25% cooler than ambient temperatures.

Just goes to show that sometimes you have to look beyond what you've always known to get the job done....of course this makes me think of the New Hope community. What are the aspects of friendship that we need to take another look - or a 'new' look at to allow God to create the community HE sees? Where is God doing a new thing? How can we be a part?

Prayer from the Daily Office

2009-10-05T07:23:00.001-04:00

General Thanksgiving:

"Almighty God, Father of all mercies, we your unworthy servants give you humble thanks for all your goodness and loving-kindness to us and to all whom you have made. We bless you for our creation, preservation, and all the blessings of this life; but above all for your immeasurable love in the redemption of the world by our Lord Jesus Christ; for the means of grace, and for the hope of glory. And, we pray, give us such an awareness of your mercies, that with truly thankful hearts we may show forth your praise, not only with our lips, but in our lives, by giving up our selves to your service, and by walking before you in holiness and righteousness all our days; through Jesus Christ our Lord, to whom, with you and the Holy Spirit, be honor and glory throughout all ages. Amen."

Check out the daily office.

A Prayer of St. Francis

2009-09-28T09:01:00.001-04:00

Lord, make us instruments of your peace. Where there is hatred, let us sow love; where there is injury, pardon; where there is discord, union; where there is doubt, faith; where there is despair, hope; where there is darkness, light; where there is sadness, joy. Grant that we may not so much seek to be consoled as to console; to be understood as to understand; to be loved as to love. For it is in giving that we receive; it is in pardoning that we are pardoned; and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life. Amen.

Welcome Home, Nate Walker!

2009-09-25T18:43:00.001-04:00

Monday Morning Smile

2009-09-21T09:16:00.000-04:00

23 Kicked Off This Weekend

2009-08-30T11:28:00.007-04:00

New Hope's Luau

2009-07-26T09:31:00.004-04:00

We had a great time at New Hope's Luau on Friday. At one point in the evening I counted people I had met for the first time, who have never been to New Hope's gatherings and there were over 20. That's awesome! Way to take the "bring your friends and family" seriously! It was great to have fun together and make some new friends.

Hope Miller

2009-07-13T20:15:00.004-04:00

Grieving with some friends, celebrating with others...that's the stuff life is made of.

Today, New Hope is praying for Harold & Robyn Miller as they grieve Hope's passing. She was 33. It was unexpected. And it has jolted us. Tonight teens are gathered together remembering her - no doubt sharing great stories. Friends are taking meals and helping to plan her funeral celebration. It's all very surreal.

As I was driving this evening I was thinking of my friend, Hannah. She's 16 months old and she does NOT like to be left - especially when she is left by someone to whom she is very attached like her Momma. When Ang (the Momma) leaves her in the nursery at church, she cries loud cries with big, watery tears. Her world is coming to an end. She can't see beyond her immediate pain. She doesn't remember that in an hour she will be reunited with her beloved Momma. Her comprehension just isn't there yet.

So that made me think of us. We don't understand death. We don't like to be left. It causes the world as we know it to come to an end. We can't see beyond our pain. We struggle to remember that this life is NOT all there is and eventually we WILL all be reunited. Our comprehension just isn't there. The reality is there, though. Whether we can see it right now or not. We will be reunited. There will be a day when ALL is made right. And this life on earth will be a brief memory. With that reality of perfect reunion in the end and the reality of our pain flush against each other, we hope.

New Hope's Retreat at Camp Frederick

2009-07-07T13:59:00.008-04:00

It's not too late to sign up for the All New Hope Retreat. The retreat will take place from Saturday, August 1 to Sunday, August 2. It will be a great opportunity for all ages of New Hopers.

During that weekend, we'll have ONE COMBINED GATHERING on Sunday at 10.30am (no Saturday Gathering).

Here is a message from the camp's Director, Tom Breitlow regarding the camp:

A slice of heaven amidst your average town where the spirit of God is felt and lives are changed. Each summer hundreds of people walk the trails, partake in the activities and learn about who they are. Camp Frederick has always been a place for people of all kinds to come and be treated equally, a place where the weak are strengthened, the selfish are humbled, the lost find direction. A place so comfortable that kids are lining up to come back year after year. In many cases, some kids come from troubled homes and count down the days to when they can get back to Camp Frederick where they know they are cared for and treated with love and affection. It is a place where youth groups come to strengthen their friendships and grow in their spiritual journey. It is a place free of judgment where each and every child is given a chance to shine their light and be who they truly are.

Camp Frederick is a place where God's beauty and wonder can be physically seen, visible in its surroundings. In the trees as the wind rushes through the leaves, in the creeks as the water flows effortlessly by, and most importantly, God's beauty is visible in the spirit of the staff. Over the past ten years, one word has defined the spirituality, the atmosphere, the experience, and the way people are treated at Camp Frederick. Namaste is a South Asian word originating in India. In its simplest definition, it means I see God in you. This, however, is what the word is all about:

Namaste
I honor the place in you in which God dwells
The place that is of love, of truth, of light, and of peace
When I am in that place in me, and you are in that place in you
We are one.

Namaste is used as a greeting in place of hello or goodbye as a constant reminder that we see God in each other. The Holy Spirit is one of the Holy Trinity as we understand God in our Lutheran tradition. Through our baptism we are given the Holy Spirit and recited during most Lutheran baptisms is this verse: Let your light so shine before others that they may see your good works and glorify your father in heaven. With the holy spirit, we are called to let the light of God shine through us. Camp Frederick is a place where kids are given the opportunity to see God in themselves, in others, and in their surroundings. When the staff looks at each other they see God's hands at work and they treat their campers with an undying love and respect because they see God in each child.

Namaste is more than a greeting, it is a way of life. It is a way of seeing our world, seeing the people we encounter each and every day. According to the Lutheran tradition, the Holy Spirit works through all of us, connects us all through God, unites us as one.

I see the God in you, Namaste.

Baptism 28 June 2009

2009-07-07T13:50:00.008-04:00

Here are some photos of Erica Baun's baptism.

I love the baptisms at New Hope! We celebrate the difference God has made in our lives by making us NEW in him.

Erica's husband, Curt, was in the water with her.

News

2009-07-06T09:10:00.004-04:00

This headline: Ethnic clashes kill 140, hurt 828 in China's west...

was immediately followed up with this headline: Transformers,' 'Ice Age 3' tie for No 1.

It struck me. At least the box office story didn't come first.

Please join me in praying for our brothers and sisters in China.

Back to normal...kind of

2009-07-05T16:10:00.003-04:00

We got back from Canada yesterday. I have laundry to do, a fridge to clean out, clothes to put away, groceries to buy...I should be tackling the 'to do' list. It looms over me. I just can't seem to get out of my red chair. This is 'my chair.' It sits in my kitchen. It's been a good chair. I never thought of having a comfortable chair in the kitchen until this chair was displaced and I couldn't bring myself to part with it. This chair is home to me. It's where I sit to wake up in the morning. It's where I have my devotions. It's where I land when I arrive at home. It's where I pray. It's where I drink my coffee (hot & iced). It's where I fb. It's where I make lists. It's where I procrastinate. It's where I cry. It's where God often meets me. It's where I talk on the phone. It's where I read. I love my chair, just so you know:) Is that normal? Do most people have a 'place' they like to be? I guess it's probably pretty 'western' of me. If I lived in a place where comfortable chairs didn't exist, this would be a non-issue, right? Who knows? Random, I know...

At New Hope today we began to talk about the Lord's Prayer. I don't know about you, but for me it was a breath of fresh air. We talked about the first few lines.

"Our" says to me that God is not my pop machine. I don't just come to him and get MY needs met. "Our" includes all created things - the people I encountered at the rest stop yesterday - the beaver I watched all week at the lake. "Our"

"Father" - daddy. As comfortable and safe as my red chair. "Father"

"In the Heavens" - closer than my own breath, AWESOME, & in control. This Father is worthy of our dependance. "In the Heavens"

"Hallowed be Thy name" - help my to hallow You, to bring honor to your name. Help me to follow the way of Jesus. To love when it is hard/impossible to love. "Hallowed by Thy name"

What a privilege it is to dwell on these things.

SonTreasure Island

2009-06-24T11:10:00.006-04:00

We are in the middle of New Hope's Neighborhood VBS in Boardman. It has been an AWESOME week so far. It's been great to get to know some of the neighborhood kids and their parents as well as see so many New Hope kids here.

This is a photo of the mural the kids made themselves.

They are having a blast. Be sure to check out Angela Austin's fb to see all the other photos.

Thanks to all the volunteers that are making it such a huge success!

Skyline Chili Celebration Game Night!

2009-05-31T19:21:00.013-04:00

We had a great time Friday night celebrating God's goodness together. Erica & Sue, thanks for the photos.

I've had some requests for the recipes. If you made a dessert or side and would be willing to share, please just post it in the comments. Thanks!

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Randomness on the Church, the Cross, the Trinity...

2009-05-26T21:51:00.010-04:00

I want to move forward.

I am tired of the consumer church of my youth. I am tired of clergy catering to what makes a congregation "feel" spiritual. I am coming to believe that oftentimes feeling spiritual has very little to do with actually being followers of Christ.

Gone are the warm fuzzies of my earlier faith. I want to be involved in a movement that binds the wounds of the brokenhearted - a movement that helps people not only get back on their feet but helps them learn to run in the grace of God.

I want to help lead a group of people who know they are broken. I want to humbly submit my own brokenness and allow God to use me as He sees fit and help others to do the same.

I don't want to fear the working of the Holy Spirit, but I have no desire to perpetuate a spiritual experience as the end goal.

I believe we are blessed to be a blessing. We are called to intentionality. By that I mean we are called to look for opportunities to extend grace and love - whether those opportunities arise in our neighboorhood, in our christian communities or in our own homes.

Jesus paid the ultimate price for each one of us. His death - his choice to go to hell and back for us - gives us the freedom to live fully. His resurrection gives us power over death - and not just bodily death, but also power over those things in life that lead to death. We have power through Jesus to partcipate in fixing the brokenness and easing the suffering caused by sin. His ascension to the right hand of the Father established God's Kingdom here on earth. If we desire to further his Kingdom, we have the privilege and responsibility to look for where He is working in the pain, suffering, and brokenness and jump in as agents of grace.

This decision to jump in means that we have to take on a Kingdom mindset. It is not appropriate for us to chase after the idols of our day. We are called to live with people who are deluded by worldly success, financial security, and the praise of men, BUT we are called to be separate in our identity. There is a better, truer way.

Each & every one of us are in need. We all have empty spaces. I dream of a community where we come to focus on Jesus and allow Him to transform our hearts. We then go from that gathering, pick up the cross of Christ and become witnesses to the amazing difference his love and grace and truth have made.

I love the view of the trinity as a beautiful dance. Father, Son, & Holy Spirit - all one and yet all distinct in their roles. I want to dance with friends among the trinity. I want to be so safe in my commuity that I am free to be me and free to let others be who they are.

In the trinity there is no jockeying for position. They live and move and work as one. The goal is set and they dance in unity to move toward the goal.

We have been blessed by the ultimate model of community. God creates, Jesus saves, the Holy Spirit guides. How fortunate we are to interact with them all.

People ask me what goals I have for a community of faith. I do see things like lives being put back in order, hungry people fed, lonely people befriended, naked people clothed. I also see captives freed. I want to live the true life in such a way that the fragrance of Christ overwhelms.

I don't want to bait and switch. I don't want to minimize the cost of Christ to "get people in." I want to pick up my cross daily - knowing that this life of emptying myself is the only way to live fully. And as the Holy Spirit brings people along, I want to be used as a tool to help navigate faith.

It is a costly life, for sure. It often means going against what I want, what my needs are, and becoming a vessel to be used. But I see no other way. I have lived much of my life living only for me. And that life brings heartache, endless struggle, and depression in a downward spiral.

So counter-intuitive, but so meaningful is my life when I am laying it down for others. I have found no greater joy or fulfillment than giving of my time and resources to someone who is in need.

How do we foster that type of community? I'm not entirely sure. I think it begins with realizing the amazing gift of life we've been given in Christ. I think it also begins with laying down our individual comforts and agendas and collectively picking up Christ's agenda. It begins also with submitting our will to God's will and the the will of the community led by Him.

I don't expect it to be a perfect process. I see the selfish parts in me that die hard. But I believe there is enough at stake to be willing to try. God has certainly put his faith in us. He is counting on us to step up to the challenge with humility and love. If He - who created us and knows us better than anyone - believes in us, then who are we to question?

I would love to hear your thoughts? Do you believe consumerism is wrecking things? How do you think we can become all Christ created us to be? How do you picture the trinity?

What Would Happen if We Just Read the Book?

2009-05-19T20:20:00.001-04:00

Check out these video clips Bill Couchenour posted on the Be The Change website.

Becoming the Answer

2009-05-02T17:05:00.004-04:00

I just finished reading a book by Shane Claiborne & Jonathan Wilson-Hartgrove called, "Becoming the Answer to Our Prayers." Here is the excerpt that I am pondering:

"One thing we have learned from conservative Christian believers and from progressive social activists is that community can be built around a common self-righteousness or around a common brokenness. Both are magnetic and contagious. People are drawn toward folks who have it all together (or have figured out how to look like they do). People are also drawn toward folks who know they don't have it all together and are not willing to fake it. Christianity can be built around isolating ourselves from evildoers and sinners, creating a community of religious super-piety. Christianity can also be built around joining with the broken sinners and evildoers of our world crying out to God, groaning for grace. That's the Christianity we have fallen in love with (p. 47)"

There are times I want to hide my brokenness. Why do I do that? It's like a little kid who plays peek a boo by covering his face with his hands, thinking the other person can't see him. The reality is that I know I'm broken. I know we're all broken. I'm dreaming of a community where we don't hide our brokenness and we don't hold our brokenness against each other. Rather we each learn to face up to our brokenness, lay it at the foot of the cross and teach others to do the same. The silhouette of my brokenness against the backdrop of what Jesus has done for me is more beautiful than a sunset off Mallory Square.

Thank God for Friends and a Helping Hand

2009-04-28T22:14:00.000-04:00

Lessons from a Wanna Be Runner

2009-04-27T10:14:00.002-04:00

I'm not sure I can call myself a runner with a straight face, but I do try to jog at least 3 times a week. As I jog, there are things that pop into my mind that have physical as well as spiritual impact on my life. Here are a few:

1. I see that sometimes when I jog I will face a small hill and if I make too big of a deal of it, it is harder than it needs to be. I psych myself out and then the running is tough.

That is also true in other areas of life. I may worry about things that will never happen. I may attribute wrong motives to someone that simply don't exist. Sometimes just by activity in my own mind, I allow mole hills to become mountains. The result is a heaviness of spirit that keeps me from thriving in Christ.

2. And then sometimes the opposite is true. There is one hill that I run that has kicked my butt. I started it too fast and burnt out before half way. Wheezing and on the verge of puking - not a pretty sight.

There have also been times in my life when I have faced rough patches. Through those experiences, I have begun to learn that during seasons of high stress, illness, relational difficulty, it is important to pace myself. It's important to realize that things in life can drain our emotional energy. If we are going to survive and finish well, we must take whatever time we need to rest and allow God to restore us to himself.

3. Encouragement is vital. My friend, Becky, is the BEST running encourager I know. When we see each other she always asks how it's going and is always so genuinely proud of me. In turn, it keeps me going and makes me want to encourage others.

The same is true in our walks with Christ. All of us can benefit from receiving as well as giving encouragement. And you never know what impact your words of encouragement might be to someone. It just may be the thing that keeps them going.

4. The last thing I've been thinking about lately is how important it is to enjoy the run. Some days I forget to do that and I just want to be done. I listen to a song over and over, just waiting to get to the finish. But there was a day a few weeks ago that helped me learn this lesson. It was raining, but I really wanted to get out there. I had decided that I shouldn't take my ipod - it wasn't worth the risk. But I had NEVER done this run or any other run without music to keep me going. I had a great time! I noticed things about my town that I hadn't noticed before and I was enjoying God's creation in a very unique way.

Sometimes it's hard to transfer this lesson. There is always so much to be done, so many unfinished projects. It makes me think of my friend, Teresa, who is SOOO good at this. She always says it's important to put in a hard day's work (and she is one of the most tireless workers I know), but she says it is equally important to have fun. She taught me to get cleaned up and spend time with friends or do something fun to balance out the day. It's a good lesson I continue to learn.

Stolen Wisdom

2009-04-17T07:43:00.005-04:00

Bits of wisdom from Dave's Mom:

Change is inevitable, growth is a choice.

Distinguish the difference between living with expectations and living with expectancy. Choose expectancy.

Not the Kingdom of Death

2009-04-12T06:19:00.002-04:00

Walter Brueggemann again...

Christ is risen!

We give thanks for the gift of Easter
that runs beyond our explanations,
beyond our categories of reason,
even more, beyond the sinking sense of our own lives.

We know about the powers of death,
powers that persist among us,
powers that drive us from you, and
from our neighbor, and
from our best selves.

We know about the powers of fear and greed and anxiety,
and brutality and certitude,
powers before which we are helpless.

And then you.......you at dawn, unquenched,
you in the darkness,
you on Sunday,
you who breaks the world to joy,

Yours is the kingdom....not the kingdom of death,
Yours is the power....not the power of death,
Yours....You....and we give thanks
for the newness beyond our achieving.
Amen.

The Pivot of Hope by Walter Brueggemann

2009-04-09T14:40:00.003-04:00

This day of dread and betrayal and denial causes a pause in our busyness.
Who would have thought that you would take this eighth son of Jesse to become the pivot of hope in our ancient memory?
Who would have thought that you would take this uncredentialed Galilean rabbi to become the pivot of newness in the world?
Who would have thought that you - God of gods and Lord of lords - would fasten on such small, innocuous agents whom the world scorns to turn creation toward your newness?

As we are dazzled, give us the freedom to resituate our lives in modest, uncredentialed, vulnerable places.
We ask for freedom and courage to move out from our nicely arranged patterns of security into dangerous places of newness where we fear to go.
Cross us by the cross, that we may be Easter marked. Amen.

Easter Weekend at New Hope

2009-04-09T08:40:00.002-04:00

Since Easter is a time when there are usually extra visitors, I'd like to request extra snacks (cookies, brownies, fruit, whatever). If you are able to bring something, it would be greatly appreciated.

Here's the schedule for this weekend:

Friday, April 10 - Tenebrae Gathering @ 7pm (childcare available for nursery & preschool)

Saturday, April 11 - No Saturday Gathering

Sunday, April 12 - Two Sunday Gatherings at 9.30am & 11.15am (Our kids will have their Easter Egg Hunt during these gatherings. We'll take lots of pictures!)

Connection Updates

2009-04-07T13:22:00.003-04:00

Here are a couple updates on connection opportunities happening around New Hope:

Pat Klaus has been leading another one of her "Weight Loss Challenges." They have their celebration party tonight. In the past three months the group has lost a total of 291 pounds! If you're interested in checking it out, the next class begins April 28th at 5.45pm.

Andrea Simpson held a study on Passover this past Sunday. God has been expanding her horizons of Jewish culture and she is beginning to share that with others. On this Thursday, April 9th, there will be a Seder at Calvary Baptist Church (1463 Shields Road). If you're interested in going with some other New Hopers, give Andrea a call (234.567.1322).

April 18th is the next UFC Night. It's at John Raneri's home (7695 Clingan Road, Apt 6, Poland). You can give John a call (724.272.7832) for more information.

Psalm 34

2009-04-07T09:03:00.003-04:00

It struck me this morning as I walked out into the snow that praising God is not dependent on the weather. Nor is it dependent on our circumstances or how we 'feel.' We can always praise him because He never changes. I am thankful for the unchanging nature of God. It means that we have an opportunity to praise him on the best days, the worst days, and everything in between. And he is always there for us.

Psalm 34
[1] I will bless the LORD at all times;
his praise shall continually be in my mouth.
[2] My soul makes its boast in the LORD;
let the humble hear and be glad.
[3] O magnify the LORD with me,
and let us exalt his name together.
[4] I sought the LORD, and he answered me,
and delivered me from all my fears.
[5] Look to him, and be radiant;
so your faces shall never be ashamed.
[6] This poor soul cried, and was heard by the LORD,
and was saved from every trouble.
[7] The angel of the LORD encamps
around those who fear him, and delivers them.
[8] O taste and see that the LORD is good;
happy are those who take refuge in him.
[9] O fear the LORD, you his holy ones,
for those who fear him have no want.
[10] The young lions suffer want and hunger,
but those who seek the LORD lack no good thing.
[11] Come, O children, listen to me;
I will teach you the fear of the LORD.
[12] Which of you desires life,
and covets many days to enjoy good?
[13] Keep your tongue from evil,
and your lips from speaking deceit.
[14] Depart from evil, and do good;
seek peace, and pursue it.
[15] The eyes of the LORD are on the righteous,
and his ears are open to their cry.
[16] The face of the LORD is against evildoers,
to cut off the remembrance of them from the earth.
[17] When the righteous cry for help, the LORD hears,
and rescues them from all their troubles.
[18] The LORD is near to the broken- hearted,
and saves the crushed in spirit.
[19] Many are the afflictions of the righteous,
but the LORD rescues them from them all.
[20] He keeps all their bones;
not one of them will be broken.
[21] Evil brings death to the wicked,
and those who hate the righteous will be condemned.
[22] The LORD redeems the life of his servants;
none of those who take refuge in him will be condemned.

Palm Sunday

2009-04-05T07:09:00.003-04:00

Today is a celebration. The palms remind us of the first people who were enamored with Christ. They were caught up in praise. The celebrated the arrival of the King.

Psalm 150
[1] Praise the Lord!
Praise God in his sanctuary;
praise him in his mighty firmament!
[2] Praise him for his mighty deeds;
praise him according to his surpassing greatness!
[3] Praise him with trumpet sound;
praise him with lute and harp!
[4] Praise him with tambourine and dance;
praise him with strings and pipe!
[5] Praise him with clanging cymbals;
praise him with loud clashing cymbals!
[6] Let everything that breathes praise the Lord!
Praise the Lord!

Today we have the opportunity to praise Jesus with our lips and also with our lives as we lay our lives before Him.

Memories of God

2009-04-02T12:22:00.005-04:00

I recently shared on this blog the focus I've had of trying to see God as he desires to be seen. It has been my New Year's decision, also my decision through Lent. So, I thought I'd share some 'vacation thoughts.' These are the thoughts that struck me on the first day of our time in Key Largo. Funny how being in a certain place can transport you to a different time. God is faithful.

"I am sitting inside the boatel (a houseboat that is permanently docked), looking out at the Key Largo Sound. The sea air pours in. This place Steve found is PERFECT for us. It's a step above camping, it's cheap, has a deck for enjoying the view, kayaks to use, a jetty to fish from. That's what Steve is doing right now. We arrived about 4 hours ago, rested, read some of Annie Dillard's "Pilgrim at Tinker Creek" aloud, did a little driving around, made a stop at Publix (NO Ohio grocery stores compare). We'll grill steaks later - unless Steve hooks a big one!

I've had a couple of surprisingly emotional moments this week. The first one was as our plane approached Tampa. I spotted the water and was overwhelmed...overwhelmed with what I am not sure. Maybe a big part of me misses our life in Florida. Maybe that missing was followed up by a flood of memories of difficult days here - hospitals, work, uncertainty...And then there's Tam. I miss my friend. For me Clearwater = Tam, crazy, fun-loving, seeking, beautiful Tam. She and her family are now living back in France. Nonetheless, I can't drive around without thinking of riding with her, getting to know the local spots, hanging out at their apartment on the intercostal waterway. Her friendship during that year was God's gift to me.

Today I was again surprised by overwhelming emotion. My heart was gripped as I watched my girls walk without me toward airport security (they only joined us for the wedding weekend). They weren't alone. I knew Andrew, Kates, and Jame Jame wouldn't let anything happen to them. Thank God for family. Still, it felt weird and wrong.

They are now safely home with Grandma Hopper and will have a fine week without us. I will miss them and I will have fun without them and I will be ready to see them before it is time. Even as I sit here, I miss them.

I am thankful for this time, though - especially here in Florida. This is the place where my faith in God was forged. It was our apartment in Clearwater where I first discovered that I could no longer survive without recognizing God's active hand on my life. I needed God EVERYDAY. And God was faithful too many times to count. Even in my doubt and fear, God's hand was evident...often palpable.

I wasn't prepared for these memories. I'm sure it's because we lived here such a short time and so much happened in those years, but I find that my memories of living in Florida are the clearest memories of my life. This week we'll snorkel where we first took the girls snorkeling (John Pennekamp State Park). I will never forget Lizzie (as a 2nd grader) trying to be all grown up and "lay out" in the sun. I think she lasted 45 seconds. Nor will I forget Paige's little kindergarten fanny sticking up out of the water for HOURS as she snorkeled along the very shallow area at Cannon Beach. Those times are treasures.

It's nearly dark now. Steve will be back soon. Looks like we'll be having steak tonight..."

Good Christians?

2009-03-11T10:52:00.005-04:00

I was reading this morning in Keller's book. He is talking about the misnomer that Christians should somehow be kinder, better, less prone to immaturity and moral failings than the rest of society. He said that kind of thinking is based upon the idea that we somehow get 'cleaned up' and then come to Christ - kind of opposite to what the gospel actually is.

Here is an excerpt I found interesting:

"Good character is largely attributable to a loving, safe and stable family and social environment - conditions for which we were not responsible. Many have had instead an unstable family background, poor role models, and a history of tragedy and disappointment. As a result, they are burdened with deep insecurities, hypersensitivity, and a lack of self-confidence. They may struggle with uncontrolled anger, shyness, addictions, and other difficulties as a result.

Now imagine that someone with a very broken past becomes a Christian and her character improves significantly over what it was. Nevertheless, she still may be less secure and self-disciplined than someone who is so well adjusted that she feels no particular need for religious affiliation at all. Suppose you meet both of these women the same week. Unless you know the starting points and life journeys of each woman, you could easily conclude that Christianity isn't worth much, and that Christians are inconsistent with their own standards."

It's Been A Week

2009-03-05T15:22:00.005-05:00

So, it's been a week since our Ash Wednesday Gathering. We had a great time together. Here are some of the comments I received:

"Tonight's gathering was very meaningful to me..."

"I love watching people come together like that."

"Loved the aroma of incense, sound of emotion, hammering interrupting the soft, sweet music..."

"Was very powerful and meaningful to me and I'm sure others as well."

"...(the) gathering was very moving, indeed."

"...cool night..."

We are one week into Lent. How is it going? However it's going, I encourage you to remember the season. Sometimes when I start some kind of change in behavior for the positive and fail shortly thereafter, I have a tendency to put off starting again. I think we miss out when we do that.

This is a year of discovery for me. This year I have decided NOT to fast anything. Instead I've decided to add. I have chosen to face some of my doubts - both named and unnamed - and attempt to focus on God. I want to discover who he is, REALLY. I've lived much of my life with my own view of him and in recent days have seen how lacking my view is. I know I will never understand him - who wants a god that can be totally understood? But I do believe that God desires to be known. So I'm spending my time talking to him, writing about him, drawing to him, reading about him.

I've started two books that I am really enjoying. The first is "The Reason for God," by Tim Keller. The second is "The Church of 80% Sincerity," by David Roche. One is a New York City Pastor; the other is a humorist. It's too early for me to endorse either one; however, I have begun learning from each. You can get a feel for David here:

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More Photos

2009-03-01T19:37:00.008-05:00

As promised, here are more photos from our Marriage Renewal Weekend on February 14 & 15. This is Mark and Susan McConnell. They celebrated 30 years of marriage this year. Thanks to Carol Kirschke for jumping in and taking the photos.

Lent Begins

2009-02-21T11:06:00.005-05:00

Lent begins next Wednesday, February 25th. Here's a brief overview:

Lent, which comes from the word for springtime, can be viewed as a spiritual spring cleaning: a time for taking spiritual inventory and then cleaning out those things which hinder our corporate and personal relationships with Jesus Christ and our service to him. It recalls Jesus' 40 days in the wilderness and leads us up to Easter weekend. The purpose of Lent is to offer ourselves to God. If you'd like to look further into Lent's history checkout this website.

I'm looking forward to this season. We are kicking off Lent by burning palms this weekend. We will then get together on Ash Wednesday at 7.00pm (nursery will be provided). I encourage you to join us, learn a little more about the season, and see where God is leading you.

In addition, in a couple weeks, New Hope will begin a sermon series that leads us to making healing life choices. This series will help us assess where we are on our journey and where Jesus desires to heal and restore wholeness.

A Friendly Weekend

2009-02-17T16:35:00.013-05:00

This past weekend New Hope focused on relationships. It was fun to see four of New Hope's couples renew their vows. It was also fun to see so many New Hopers hang out after the gathering for the Good 'Ole Pot Luck (Thanks, Scott for using your phone's camera).

Jim & Gina Schiffhauer, Willie & Mona Barger, and Ray & Debbie Easterbrook renewed their vows on Saturday. Mark & Susan McConnell renewed their vows on Sunday (photos coming soon).

This Sunday - Official "Go Ahead and Ask Day"

2009-02-11T09:00:00.005-05:00

You may or may not realize that this Sunday (which coincidentally coincides with New Hope's Pot Luck Dinner) is "OFFICIAL GO AHEAD AND ASK DAY." That means that that person that sits down the row from you every Sunday can feel free to go ahead and ask what your name is this Sunday without feeling bad for not remembering it the first or second or third time you told it to them. And YOU can feel free to ask too!

We all do it....we introduce ourselves, talk a little, go back to our seats and eventually to our life and when we return the next weekend, we know we've introduced ourself in the past but we feel a little silly because we can't remember the other person's name...so we say something like "Hey........how's it goin'? OR Hey, Dude..."

So, this weekend, Go ahead and ask. Maybe you say something like, "so do you work close by here? or How long have you been at New Hope? or I know we've probably introduced ourselves before, but I'm just not pulling your name up..." No need to feel silly. Just go ahead and ask. It'll be fun. You may just make a new friend.

Here are the Pot Luck Details:
New Hope will provide the table service & drinks. Please bring additional items based on the first letter of your last name:

A-E: Dessert
F-L: Main Dish
M-Z: Side Dish

If you have any questions, feel free to contact me.

Quiet Time

2009-02-10T08:58:00.006-05:00

Morning: Psalm 42:1-6

As a deer longs for flowing streams,
so my soul longs for you, O God.
My soul thirsts for God, for the living God.
When shall I come and behold the face of God?
My tears have been my food day and night,
while people say to me continually, "Where is your God?"

These things I remember, as I pour out my soul:
how I went with the throng, and led them in procession
to the house of God, with glad shouts and songs of thanksgiving,
a multitude keeping festival.
Why are you cast down, O my soul, and why are you disquieted
within me? Hope in God; for I shall again praise him,
my help and my God.
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As I look at these verses this morning, I am reminded of my day yesterday. Sometimes things get all screwed up, ya know? Sometimes we worry about stuff. Sometimes we get overwhelmed. Sometimes our focus is misaligned. I don't know about you, but it happens to me - a lot.

I started a new book last night. It chronicles the life of Smith Wigglesworth (1859-1947). He is regarded as a faith-healer. He was an evangelist who ended each of his gatherings with a time of healing - no matter the topic of his sermon....I don't know what to think of the healing stuff. I know I haven't seen it in my world to the degree that it is possible. It's hard to know what to make of it. I do know Wigglesworth lived a life of ever-increasing faith. Rather than allowing life to beat down, he allowed life to increase his faith.

Another appealing thing about Wigglesworth is that he was NOT into fame. He had a true sense of self. He knew that if ANYTHING was of his own power, it was messed up. He walked in God's power. He positioned himself to hear from God. And he understood what it meant to be crucified with Christ. His life was not his own.

We talk a lot about walking together at New Hope. Today I'm just thinking about how vital walking alone with God is as well. Our times when we quiet ourselves before God - to remember who we are and listen - are what bring us together on a path that makes a difference. I know for myself, if I do not FORCE myself to retreat from email and facebook and the telephone on a regular basis, I start to think that those are the only relationships that matter - that somehow my value comes only from what others think of me. That in turn, makes my life again about ME and not Christ.

The following is a prayer that helps me get back on track. Maybe it will be useful to you as well. It's from "Waking the Dead," by John Eldredge - pulled it right off his website.

"(Over the years we have grown in our understanding of prayer, and spiritual warfare, and of our need to be restored in the life of God each day. And so we have developed this prayer, which we call The Daily Prayer. It is entirely based on Scripture, almost like praying the Scriptures. For the details on that, see chapter ten in Waking the Dead. The prayer has sort of morphed through several generations, as we’ve learned something new about the work of Christ for us, or the ploys of the enemy. And so we offer you this, the latest version. May it be a source of life to you. Daily.)

My dear Lord Jesus I come to you now to be restored in you, to be renewed in you, to receive your love and your life, and all the grace and mercy I so desperately need this day. I honor you as my Sovereign, and I surrender every aspect of my life totally and completely to you. I give you my spirit, soul and body, my heart, mind, and will. I cover myself with your blood—my spirit, soul, and body, my heart, mind and will. I ask your Holy Spirit to restore me in you, renew me in you, and to lead me in this time of prayer. In all that I now pray, I stand in total agreement with your Spirit, and with my intercessors and allies, by your Spirit alone.

[Now, if you are a husband, you’ll want to include your wife in this time of prayer. If you are a parent, you’ll want to include your children. If this doesn’t apply to you, jump to the paragraph after this one.]

In all that I now pray, I include (my wife and/or children, by name). Acting as their head, I bring them under your authority and covering, as I come under your authority and covering. I cover (wife and/or children, by name) with your blood – their spirit, soul and body, their heart, mind and will. I ask your Spirit to restore them in you, renew them in you, and apply to them all that I now pray on their behalf, acting as their head.

Dear God, holy and victorious Trinity, you alone are worthy of all my worship, my heart’s devotion, all my praise, all my trust and all the glory of my life. I love you, I worship you, I trust you. I give myself over to you in my heart’s search for life. You alone are Life, and you have become my life. I renounce all other gods, all idols, and I give you the place in my heart and in my life that you truly deserve. I confess here and now that this is all about you, God, and not about me. You are the Hero of this story, and I belong to you. Forgive me for my every sin. Search me and know me and reveal to me where you are working in my life, and grant to me the grace of your healing and deliverance, and a deep and true repentance.

Heavenly Father, thank you for loving me and choosing me before you made the world. You are my true Father—my Creator, my Redeemer, my Sustainer, and the true end of all things, including my life. I love you, I trust you, I worship you. I give myself over to you to be one with you in all things, as Jesus is one with you. Thank you for proving your love by sending Jesus. I receive him and all his life and all his work, which you ordained for me. Thank you for including me in Christ, for forgiving me my sins, for granting me his righteousness, for making me complete in him. Thank you for making me alive with Christ, raising me with him, seating me with him at your right hand, establishing me in his authority, and anointing me with your Holy Spirit, your love and your favor. I receive it all with thanks and give it total claim to my life—my spirit, soul, and body, my heart, mind and will. I bring the life and the work of Jesus over (wife and/or children, by name) and over my home, my household, my vehicles, finances, all my kingdom and domain.

Jesus, thank you for coming to ransom me with your own life. I love you, I worship you, I trust you. I give myself over to you, to be one with you in all things. And I receive all the work and all of the triumph of your cross, death, blood and sacrifice for me, through which I am atoned for, I am ransomed and transferred to your kingdom, my sin nature is removed, my heart is circumcised unto God, and every claim made against me is disarmed this day. I now take my place in your cross and death, through which I have died with you to sin, to my flesh, to the world, and to the evil one. I take up the cross and crucify my flesh with all its pride, arrogance, unbelief, and idolatry (and anything else you are currently struggling with). I put off the old man. I ask you to apply to me the fullness of your cross, death, blood and sacrifice. I receive it with thanks and give it total claim to my spirit, soul and body, my heart, mind and will.

Jesus, I also sincerely receive you as my life, my holiness and strength, and I receive all the work and triumph of your resurrection, through which you have conquered sin and death and judgment. Death has no mastery over you, nor does any foul thing. And I have been raised with you to a new life, to live your life – dead to sin and alive to God. I now take my place in your resurrection and in your life, through which I am saved by your life. I reign in life through your life. I receive your life – your humility, love and forgiveness, your integrity in all things, your wisdom, discernment and cunning, your strength, your joy, your union with the Father. Apply to me the fullness of your resurrection. I receive it with thanks and give it total claim to my spirit, soul and body, my heart, mind and will.

Jesus, I also sincerely receive you as my authority, rule, and dominion, my everlasting victory against Satan and his kingdom, and my ability to bring your Kingdom at all times and in every way. I receive all the work and triumph of your ascension, through which you have judged Satan and cast him down, you have disarmed his kingdom. All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to you, Jesus. All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to you, and you are worthy to receive all glory and honor, power and dominion, now and forevermore. And I have been given fullness in you, in your authority. I now take my place in your ascension, and in your throne, through which I have been raised with you to the right hand of the Father and established in your authority. I now bring the kingdom of God, and the authority, rule and dominion of Jesus Christ over my life today, over my home, my household, my vehicles and finances, over all my kingdom and domain.

I now bring the authority, rule and dominion of the Lord Jesus Christ, and the fullness of the work of Christ, against Satan, against his kingdom, against every foul and unclean spirit come against me. (At this point you might want to name the spirits that you know have been attacking you). I bring the full work of Jesus Christ against every foul power and black art, against every human being and their warfare. I bind it all from me in the authority of the Lord Jesus Christ and in his Name.

Holy Spirit, thank you for coming. I love you, I worship you, I trust you. I sincerely receive you and all the work and victory in Pentecost, through which you have come, you have clothed me with power from on high, sealed me in Christ. You have become my union with the Father and the Son, become the Spirit of truth in me, the life of God in me, my Counselor, Comforter, Strength, and Guide. I honor you as my Sovereign, and I yield every dimension of my spirit, soul and body, my heart, mind and will to you and you alone, to be filled with you, to walk in step with you in all things. Fill me afresh. Restore my union with the Father and the Son. Lead me in all truth, anoint me for all of my life and walk and calling, and lead me deeper into Jesus today. I receive you with thanks, and I give you total claim to my life.

Heavenly Father, thank you for granting to me every spiritual blessing in the heavenlies in Christ Jesus. I claim the riches in Christ Jesus over my life today, my home, my kingdom and domain. I bring the blood of Christ over my spirit, soul, and body, my heart, mind and will. I put on the full armor of God – the belt of truth, breastplate of righteousness, shoes of the gospel, helmet of salvation. I take up the shield of faith and sword of the Spirit, and I choose to wield these weapons at all times in the power of God. I choose to pray at all times in the Spirit.

Thank you for your angels. I summon them in the authority of Jesus Christ and command them to destroy the kingdom of darkness throughout my kingdom and domain, destroy all that is raised against me, and to establish your Kingdom throughout my kingdom and domain. I ask you to send forth your Spirit to raise up prayer and intercession for me this day. I now call forth the kingdom of the Lord Jesus Christ throughout my home, my family, my kingdom and my domain, in the authority of the Lord Jesus Christ, with all glory and honor and thanks to him."

Saturday Lectionary Excerpt

2009-02-07T09:05:00.001-05:00

Psalm 63.3-8
Because your steadfast love is better than life,
my lips will praise you.
So I will bless you as long as I live;
I will lift up my hands and call on your name.
My soul is satisfied as with a rich feast,
and my mouth praises you with joyful lips
when I think of you on my bed,
and meditate on you in the watches of the night;
for you have been my help,
and in the shadow of your wings I sing for joy.
My soul clings to you;
your right hand upholds me.

Anger Lunch

2009-02-02T10:54:00.008-05:00

Each week for the last month or so, we've been having a very informal lunch after the Sunday gatherings. There are a few of us who are consistent each week and others who pop in when they can. Yesterday was no exception - and the topic lent itself to conversation perfectly.

Who of us does not deal with anger? Is there a person on the planet that keeps their cool 24/7? I don't think so. If there were than the verses in the bible that speak to the idea of anger wouldn't say things like, "in your anger, do not sin..." We will get angry. That's a given. Where does it come from? And as people who are trying to follow Christ, what do we do with it?

Here are a couple 'anger' questions to consider:

Do you court anger? One of the lunchers yesterday shared of a story from work. She said that when her fellow-employee gets to work, he ALWAYS checks the work of the shift before them. He then proceeds to complain about what the prior shift did wrong. He chooses anger each day.

How do you deal with injustice around you? Another luncher shared of seriously poor working conditions. These guys are working in the freezing cold without a kerosene for the heater that was promised to them. The luncher went to his boss on Saturday to try and get some heat for his friends. His supervisor, void of sympathy, told him if he didn't like it he could just go home. The luncher did go home, but not before going out and buying kerosene with his own money to get the heat going.

Another luncher shared of difficult work circumstances she's dealt with for a year. She made the decision NOT to let her anger show at work, but at the same time, she feels a little inauthentic...

How does one distinguish between selfish anger and selfless anger? How does one ramp up one and tone down the other?

Regular people looking for real answers...and figuring things out as we walk together.

Magic Friendship Serum

2009-01-29T10:01:00.007-05:00

Wouldn't it be nice if there was just a special, magic friendship serum the you could put on someone and turn them into the answer to all your relational needs? It would be so much simpler than what ACTUALLY has to take place in order for friendship to happen.

I would love that. Then I wouldn't have to spend time praying about who God is leading me to. I wouldn't have to put myself out there and ask someone to have a cup of coffee with me. I wouldn't have to order my life to make time for others. I wouldn't have to get over the relational hurts of my past and give it another shot. And that social event that I'd really rather skip, but I know friendships just might happen? Yep, I could skip that too. And I wouldn't have to apologize when I hurt someone I love. I could just go on with my merry day.

Too bad that's just not the way it works. There is an inescapable intentionality to friendships and Biblical community. If I know someone is longing for friendship...along with offering it of myself, I point them toward seeking where God wants them to connect. I point them toward ordering their life in such a way that friendship is possible. And I point them toward taking an intentional approach that means we not only open ourselves up to relationships, but we sometimes have to step out of our comfort zones to find it.

One thing I know for sure, the intentionality is worth it. There is nothing like a friendship of two people who are on a similar path helping each other become who God created them to be and bringing out the best in each other.

So here's my question...How do you pursue friendship? How would you help someone find the relational connections they crave?

Last Night's Movie Night

2009-01-24T08:55:00.003-05:00

We had a great turn out at New Hope for the movie last night. Thanks to Steve and Shannon for coordinating everything.

"Fireproof" had some great take aways. If you haven't seen it, I encourage you to check it out. It goes against the common, American attitude that says "Love is a feeling. Go with your heart. If you fall out of love, just get out." It speaks to a deeper reality of love. This true love is not dependent on feelings. It is a love that is exemplified in what Christ has done for us. This love is worth fighting for and can stand the test of time.

If you are looking for someone to process stuff with, Leonard and Betty Perdue would love to talk with you. They have a heart for seeing marriages thrive and they have covenanted together in their own marriage for many years. You can give them a call (330.549.2215) or you can find Betty on Facebook.

For me, one of the most powerful parts of the movie was a song by John Waller, "While I'm Waiting." Much of my (of our) life is spent waiting. What do we do as we wait for things to happen? What do we do as we wait for the pain to be over? What do we do as we wait for things to turn around? What do we do as we wait for God to show us our path?
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Movie Night This Friday

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Don't forget:

New Hope is showing "Fireproof" this Friday at 7.00pm.

Free Childcare, Free Popcorn.

Comment this post if you want to use the childcare.

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Growing a Movement Lunch - Sharing Dark Days Together

2009-01-20T11:02:00.009-05:00

So... Because Paul's message this week was on Compassion: Loving as Jesus Loved, we began our lunch asking the question "how is God breaking your heart?" I threw the question out there because I'm always listening for where God is working and where he might be calling New Hope to join him.

Immediately three New Hopers shared heart-wrenching stories of friends or family members who are going through the darkest of days...days where ending it seems more of an option than living.

If you are reading this post and you have been impacted by suicide, please let me say that I am sorry. I've seen how heartbreaking it can be. May God's peace and love surround you in an amazing way. Please know that you are not alone.

It would be great if none of us ever had to face the dark days, wouldn't it? If I could remove the pain, I would do it in a heartbeat. Since that is not to be (at least not yet), I am so thankful that New Hope is a real place with real people, real problems - no false faces. We spent some time talking about and praying for each situation. It is my hope that some of the friendships fostered that day will continue and we will give each other strength. Our hope is not of this world. What an honor and responsibility to share that hope with those at New Hope and in our community.

If someone in your family has committed suicide and you are looking for support check out these Survivors of Suicide Groups:
1. Third Wednesday of the month - 7pm - at Disciple's Christian Church (565 Boardman-Canfield Rd.)
2. Third Thursday of the month - 11a-1pm - Columbiana Counseling Center (40722 St Rd 154, Lisbon)

If you are helping someone through a suicidal time, here are some resources to check out:
1. Turning Point Crisis Center (330.744.2991)
2. Help Hotline (330.747.2696 or dial 211)

Next week the focus is the Journey: Living as Jesus Lived. I encourage you to pick up some fast food and join us after the second gathering on Sunday. We'll explore what it means to live in Christ's humility, with God's strength, in community with each other.

Update on the Growing a Movement Lunch

2009-01-13T08:47:00.013-05:00

When we decided to have a "Growing A Movement Lunch," I really had no idea how it would turn out. For me, the most important components were that people felt at home and everyone had the opportunity to share their thoughts about Jesus. My hope was that it would be a big enough group that new friendship could begin, casual enough to be comfortable for all personality types, and simple enough that it could be replicated with little effort.

From a personal standpoint, the time together positively impacted my walk with Jesus. If you've been following my blog, you've seen that I've been going through a pretty dry time recently. I didn't realize it until last night, but I had kind of fallen into a 'habit of dryness.' I was talking to a friend who was sharing that she is going through a dry time. I just started to say that I echo her thoughts, but then God checked me. I stopped mid-sentence to share with her a couple of "God-happenings" that I've experienced in the last week. One in particular was a realization that I had at the "Growing a Movement Lunch."

I don't know about you, but I am very susceptible to life-overload. I go through much of my week doing all there is to do without much thought to where God is, where he's working, where I can be involved....It was fun to see that lunch go beyond just the hour or so we spent together to really impact my week.

At the lunch there were all ages of people there from young families to grandparents and everything in between. We talked about how it must have felt for those first followers when Jesus came in and claimed to be their way, truth, and life. We talked about how people may feel today as they see him as those things for the first time.

We talked about some of the practical aspects of following Jesus....We asked the question, how do we keep Jesus in the forefront of our minds throughout the day? Sometimes it's an email that sparks our thought, sometimes it's a conversation. Part of the equation is that openness to see where Jesus is working - even if it looks different than we expect.

One of the things we began to talk about how Jesus has a knack for challenging the status quo. He challenged it back then and he challenges it today. What do we do with that? I look forward to continuing that conversation this week as we look at the topic of Compassion: Loving as Jesus Loved. What does that mean to us, right here in Ohio, right now....

Anyone is welcome to join us. It's very simple, really. Just bring some food from home or pick up some fast food and meet us in the main room after the second gathering on Sunday. We'll push some tables together and hang out. One request: if you have kids you'd like to have watched at that time please let me know (330.565.4167), so we can plan accordingly.

Let's Do Lunch This Sunday

2009-01-08T07:44:00.006-05:00

This weekend Paul will begin the foundational series for New Hope. We will talk about why we do what we do and where we go from here. In particular, this weekend will focus on Jesus. Who is he, REALLY?

After Sunday's Second Gathering, we're having an informal lunch. Just bring some food from home or grab some fast food and meet us in the main room. It will be a chance to connect with others and talk about what we've learned.

There will be childcare. Let me know if you need it (330.565.4167).

I look forward to seeing you there.

Wednesday's Pondering

2009-01-07T06:24:00.006-05:00

There are a few verses from the lectionary that I'm holding in my hands today.

The first is Psalm 147.11
His (the Lord's) delight is not in the strength of the horse,
nor his pleasure in the speed of a runner;
but the Lord takes pleasure in those who fear him,
in those who hope in his steadfast love.

The next is Revelation 2.4
But I have this against you, that you have abandoned the love you had at first.

The last is John 2.11
Jesus did this, the
first of his signs, in Cana of Galilee, and revealed his glory; and
his disciples believed in him.

Today I'm thinking through what it means for me to fear him, to hope in his steadfast love. Because I have been experiencing a time of quiet, I think I am called to just do what I know to do. I am called to offer myself to be used in whatever way God sees fit to use me. I will allow my hope to grow naturally. And I will rest assured that it is not my 'abilities' that God desires. God desires my heart.

The second verse calls me to remember the love and the decisions it prompted. My covenant with God is no more negotiable than my marriage covenant with Steve. Steve and I will fall in and out of love hundreds of times throughout our life. The key is falling back in love each time. The same is true of my relationship with God. So in my relationship with the Lord, I take time to remember. I take time to reminisce about God's hand on my life.

Lastly, the disciples were able to see Jesus' first sign which revealed is glory and they believed in him. These are the questions I am asking myself today. Where am I seeing Jesus' glory? Am I putting myself in situations where Jesus' glory can be revealed? How can I be open to miracles today?

Jumpin' 0n the Bandwagon

2009-01-05T06:31:00.003-05:00

I realize it is pretty cliche to post a New Year's Resolution Entry. But, I'm still comfortable with stating the obvious, so here we go...

I really did not even consider making any resolutions until this past weekend. Steve and I made a quick trip to Fort Wayne with some friends for an amazing (Non)conference on missional communities (more about that later). On the drive home, we began talking about resolutions. For me, once this holiday season got going, and the girls were out of school, I didn't spend much time thinking beyond the present. Usually I spend some time reflection on the year, looking ahead to the next..nope, none of that...

So last night I had this urge to clean out my night stand. As I worked, I kept a notebook nearby, so I could jot down any 'resolution-type' thoughts I might have. It's in rough form, but here's what I came up with:
1. Find opportunities to purge the excess.
2. Focus on what's real.
3. Incorporate small choices/changes.
4. Seek simple and significant memories.
5. In the speed of the moment, don't overlook something important (I almost threw away a whole set of calligraphy pens mistaking it for trash...).
6. Take the steps that PROVE I am not willing to let life pass me by.
7. Make play a priority.
8. Get to know God just for the sake of knowing God.

Happy New Year to you! I trust you'll find some time this month to take what you need from 2008, and look ahead to what 2009 has to offer. I appreciated what Bill had to say in the gatherings this past weekend. None of us know what 2009 has in store - surely it will be a mix of highs and lo's. But we know who goes before us. We know our strength lies in Jesus. He is who is creating us.

Hope Reigns

2008-12-24T09:10:00.004-05:00

I've been thinking this morning of several people I know who are struggling this Christmas. Some are struggling personally, some physically, some financially, some relationally. You name the category, people are struggling.

Then I read the Lectionary for today and ran across these verses in Psalm 147:

How good it is to sing praises to our God;
for he is gracious, and a song of praise is fitting.

2 The Lord builds up Jerusalem;
he gathers the outcasts of Israel.

3 He heals the brokenhearted,
and binds up their wounds.

4 He determines the number of the stars;
he gives to all of them their names.

5 Great is our Lord, and abundant in power;
his understanding is beyond measure.

6 The Lord lifts up the downtrodden;
he casts the wicked to the ground.

7 Sing to the Lord with thanksgiving;
make melody to our God on the lyre.

8 He covers the heavens with clouds,
prepares rain for the earth,
makes grass grow on the hills.

9 He gives to the animals their food,
and to the young ravens when they cry.

10 His delight is not in the strength of the horse,
nor his pleasure in the speed of a runner;

11 but the Lord takes pleasure in those who fear him,
in those who hope in his steadfast love.

These verses again remind me that God is big (kind of a silly understatement, huh?). But he is. So whatever is facing me - whether it's silly little things or big, huge, life-altering things, I can count on him. This God (that I don't understand), for whatever reason has chosen to come in the flesh to give meaning and purpose. God takes pleasure in those who fear him and in those who hope in his STEADFAST love.

So, I am becoming more comfortable with blogging my thoughts - which mostly just state the obvious. Here I go. It's ok to hope. It is right to hope. And it's ok to fear the Lord. When you look at the magnitude of who he is and what he's done, who wouldn't fear? And he knows us. He knows us like no other. To me that is a comfort. I like the thought of being with someone who 'gets' me - who knows the good and the bad and still loves me. I don't have to TRY to be anything other than who I am. Here's to hope.

Advent Action: Today is a day of hope. Allow yourself to feel it. If you don't feel it, allow yourself to think it. What are you hoping for? Lay that hope in the hands of the one who loves you like only a creator could.

Christmas Eve Eve

2008-12-23T08:17:00.005-05:00

As far as I can see (so far) this day is laid out for me. I met Kates for coffee this morning - so sad that we'll be going different directions on Christmas - but thankful for the time we do have.

And as soon as I can pull the girls out of bed (which will probably be around 10am), we'll start our fun day. I've decided to do some 'psuedo-baking' this year. There are all kinds of great recipes out there for puppy chow, chocolate covered popcorn (ok, I realize that one doesn't need a recipe...), sweet/chocolate covered crackers. Since I'm not much of an actual 'baker' I thought I'd try my hand at some other stuff. The main thing is that I wanted to carve out time with my girls. They're getting older, ya know. They are beginning to have their own lives apart from us.

Things have changed even since this photo was taken...Liz has started High School. Paige is in Junior High. I know I keep mentioning my girls...I guess maybe it is hitting me harder than ever that they are growing up. I'm not sad we're past the baby stage, but I do wish we could stay in this stage for a long, long time...

Advent Action: Think about your season of life. Maybe things are easy. Maybe things are harder than they've ever been. Open yourself up to see God in all of it. Where is he working? Leading? Comforting?

Ahhh, Family...

2008-12-22T06:30:00.005-05:00

Parker Palmer, quaker writer, has these words to say of community:
"Community is the place where the person you least want to live with always lives. So community is not a place where you love each other sort of freely and warmly and affectionately. Community is in fact the place where you are purified, where your love is tested, where your childhood of God is constantly put through the mill of human relationships."

Sometimes those family Christmas times bring out the best in us. Sometimes those family Christmas times bring out the worst in us. Relationally, I think if we can be open to it, God can use ALL of the relational experiences of the holidays to glorify himself and bring us closer to him.

Maybe a relationship can be deepened through honest conversation....

Maybe we learn to give grace where we never thought grace could be given...

Maybe we mourn what is not, and begin to move beyond it...

Maybe we are given the opportunity to lovingly speak truth...

Maybe we are brought together as we mourn a loss together...

Maybe where a family member is lacking, we allow God to fill in& it teaches us to further depend on him...

Maybe God will bring enlightenment as we've never known...

It is hard to know how God may break in. But if we are open, I believe he will break in. He is Immanuel.

Advent Action: When we're with family sometimes it's easy to get caught up in the patterns of youth. The 45 year old suddenly becomes the 10 year old again. Prior to your family gathering, check your posture before God. Seek to be used as a vessel. Allow him to be your strength.

This Weekend

2008-12-19T06:00:00.003-05:00

I want to share a little with you about the growing generosity I see around New Hope. One of the things we've tried to do is avoid pressuring people to do things a certain way. We believe that when it comes to giving, God - who is eternally creative - will help people find their role. So, while we've talked about Advent Conspiracy and our desire to make a difference this holiday, we have in no way dictated what people SHOULD do.

It has been such a blessing to see all the different ways people are giving - of their money & time. You can check out the tree (beautifully painted by Tammi Johnson) this weekend to see what all New Hopers are involved in.

One instance in particular has stuck with me all week. Last Saturday while I was at a basketball game, a woman shared about her friend who is really struggling financially this season. I left the game and 20 minutes later was at New Hope for the gathering. When I got there, a couple came up to me and asked me if I knew of anyone who could use their financial help this year. Within the space of 30 minutes, the need was met. And that's just one example of what God is doing. What a blessing!

So...this weekend, we'll take a special offering that will help build wells to provide one of the very basics of life. The statistics are not good, but people ARE making a difference. You can check out more on the effort here.

We have the opportunity to to love as Christ loves - in a very tangible way. I encourage you - as always - to follow God's lead in this. He will let you know.

Advent Action: Cultivate a spirit of openness in your own heart. Ask God where he is working that you can be a part and take action.

Here's Where I am Today

2008-12-18T14:34:00.007-05:00

I had a friend ask me how in the world one can have peace in such a crazy time of year. Good question! About three weeks before Christmas, my Sister-in-law begins waking up wide away before 5.30 thinking of all that needs done. Another friend will be moving nonstop from now through New Year's as she welcomes family from far away. This can be a crazy time!

I've finally started to actually FEEL the anticipation today. There IS something to this time of year. And I almost think some of the craziness is part of it. It's almost like on Christmas Eve, we stop, inhale, and remember what this amazing time of year is all about.

It's hard for me to navigate through the true meaning of this season and the commercialism of it all. I feel a little like I'm taking it a step at a time. I know that relationships are key - our relationship with Jesus and our relationship with those around us. My focus this season has become my family. Throughout much of this year, they have kind of gotten the shaft. I'm trying to take this time to learn to focus on them in a more consistent way.

Today Paige and I will wrap presents together. She has been DYING to start wrapping. I can't wait either - just to spend the time together. Then tonight my dad and I will take our annual stocking-shopping trip - stuff for 28 stockings - talk about crazy. I can't remember when we started it, but it's a tradition I look forward to every year.

Advent Action: Think of one person who could really use a visit, call or card from you and take time to make contact.

An Advent Evening

2008-12-17T05:36:00.003-05:00

We've been doing this thing lately that I just love. Each evening my girls - Liz & Paige - 14 & 12 - come in and hang out on our bed for a while watching tv before bed. Maybe it's a Charlie Brown Special or House..whatever seems appropriate for the night. We didn't really plan this hanging out time, it has just sort of happened and I LOVE it. I remember when the girls were little and bedtimes were SO important because I was just so drained by that time of night. Nowadays, I'm still tired at night, but they are who I want to be with. I wonder when it shifted from needing a break 'from them' to wanting a break 'with them.'

Last night was Heartland's Christmas Concert. This concert is one of the highlights of my year. Paige sang beautifully - yes I could pick her out of the zillions of voices - I'm a mom:)

Several things made the evening particularly special.
1. I was able to hear the story of a new friend of mine who has had a rough couple of years. Her husband had a brain tumor and WOW.... One of the things she told me about was the Christmas when they had nothing - that is until 'Santa' showed up at the door with gifts for everyone. She said they cried through each and every present. If you ever wonder if your generosity is making a difference, let me just say, it is.

2. Next I was pleasantly surprised that Steve made it to the concert. I didn't realize how much I missed him until I saw his face. It was great to have that time together.

3. Paige and I went for our annual - after program ice cream - although this time we went for hot chocolate at the Dutch Village Inn. We saw the BOB guys there - I love watching the BOB guys gather. It's a group of men who want to be together, figuring out what it means to follow Christ...so cool. We also saw a new friend there, Carol, and another precious friend, Chel....which leads to number 4:

4. At the program, I saved seats for Dave & Brenda. One of the things that I have prayed for for a few years now is to be a part of a geographically feasible community. I've benefitted from a lot of small groups in my lifetime, but I've often thought that God was wanting me to be a part of something where the group was made up of people who live near each other and see each other on a regular basis - during the ins and outs of daily life. Last night was an example of those connections. We are praying about where we feel God is leading us and what good things he wants us to be involved in in the coming year.

God looks down from heaven on humankind
to see if there are any who are wise,
who seek after God. Psalm 53.2

Advent Action: Continue seeking. Ask God to show you where he is breaking in on your life right now. Remember that when God breaks in, there is usually action that needs to follow on your part. Remember Moses. Remember Mary.

Advent Day 17 Do you love me?

2008-12-16T05:47:00.005-05:00

Check out this excerpt from "The Return of the Prodigal Son," by Henri Nouwen.
At issue here is the question: "To whom do I belong? To God or to the world?"...As long as I keep running about asking "Do you love me? Do you really love me?" I give all the power to the voices of the world and put myself in bondage because the world is filled with "ifs." The words says: "Yes, I love you IF you are good-looking, intelligent, and wealthy. I love you IF you have a good education, a good job, and good connections. I love you IF you produce much, sell much, and buy much."

There are endless "ifs" hidden in the world's love. These "ifs" enslave me, since it is impossible to respond adequately to all of them. The world's love is and always will be conditional. As long as I keep looking for my true self in the world of conditional love, I will remain "hooked" to the world - trying, failing, and trying again.

Prayer: Lord, let the doubts hidden behind the question "Do you love me?" disappear as we advance through this Advent. Strengthen us to observe lovingly your commandments and precepts. Let openness to your love be the watchword of our hearts. Amen.

Advent Action: Spend the day in a conscious effort to comprehend the fact that you are God's beloved. Banish the "ifs" - the conditions that bar our confidence in God's love.

I can't think of superficial/worldly love without thinking of this song. Feel free to enjoy or ignore:) I think Paul had some sort of head-tilt quota for this video.

2008-12-15T05:52:00.004-05:00

The Lord is near to all who call on him,
to all who call on him in truth.
He fulfills the desire of all who fear him;
he also hears their cry, and saves them.
Psalm 145.18-19

There was this day I experienced about 6 years ago. It was during a time of unbelievable stress. Steve and I had moved to a new town in Florida. We were learning to live with heart disease. The girls were in a new school. There were financial issues to handle. And the list could go on and on.

On this one day in particular, I had driven from our new home in Bradenton back up to Clearwater to go to the dentist. On my way home I was feeling unbelievably overwhelmed. I was at the end of my rope and it seemed these struggles would never end. I was just about to cross the skyway bridge and I remember telling the Lord, "I just can't handle it anymore. I can't go on like this. I don't want to die, but I can't go on." It was one of the most desperate feelings I had ever experienced.

So, freaky thing happened. I flipped on the radio and happened upon a radio preacher (something I don't normally do). The preacher said my words right back to me - verbatim. He said, "if you are at the end of your rope and you just can't handle it anymore, and you can't go on.......that's where God can use you..." He went on to say a bunch of other stuff, but what I remember is pulling off the road at the fishing pier because my tears prevented me from seeing. God was real. He heard my cry. He met me where I was. He heard my cry and saved me. That day is burned into my memory. I went from feeling totally alone to knowing I wasn't alone at all.

Advent Action: Reminisce in your mind about a time when God was there for you and heard your cry. If you haven't experienced that, begin to pray that God would show you his face.

I Doubt It

2008-12-14T12:03:00.006-05:00

I've been a part of church since before I could remember and yet I doubt.

I've asked and received forgiveness of sins and yet I doubt.

I have heard of miracles from people I respect and yet I doubt.

I have been a part of the miracle of life and yet I doubt.

I have seen miracles IN MY OWN FAMILY and yet I doubt.

I have experience God-given revelation and yet I doubt.

I have experienced God's intervening in my darkest moments and yet I doubt.

I have felt God's unmistakable presence and yet I doubt.

I could sit here in guilt over my unbelief. I could pretend like I don't doubt. I could play a game and put on a good face. And maybe that would make people feel more comfortable. But I can't do it.

I know that at the time of Jesus' birth there had been 400 years of silence from God. 400 Years! I don't know what to do with that any more than I know what to do with God's silence in my own life. But here is the choice I have made today. I choose to keep seeking. I echo the prayer, "Lord, I believe, please help my unbelief." I am waiting for God to break in. I am waiting for the Messiah to come.

I am a girl needing a Savior.

Advent Weekend Three - Joy is Coming

2008-12-13T10:06:00.003-05:00

It's such a paradox that the closer we get to the arrival of Christ in the flesh, the busier our days become: shopping, gathering with family, business Christmas parties...and on and on. The following pray helps me reset my heart and mind.

"Lord, help us to rein in all the distractions to you. Let us truly listen to your requests. Keep us from the shortsighted absurdity of bestowing our attention on the wrong things. Amen."

Advent Action: There WILL come times in life when we are at a loss for words to pray. Memorize a prayer (such as the 23rd Psalm) that you feel will be helpful to you in times of trouble.

Advent Day 12

2008-12-11T06:51:00.002-05:00

An Advent Prayer

"Lord, you have revealed your love to me by coming into this world as a helpless child, human in all except sin. Let me respond to this great gift of love by making your love a reality in this world. Keep me rooted in your love and let me flower into a new person transformed by the giving and receiving of your grace. Amen"

Advent Action: Often we remain so mired in the perceived sadness of the "old tapes" running through our heads that we cannot acknowledge God's love for us. Pick one "old tape"; a resentment, a belittlement, a loss, and pack it away permanently in exchange for the shelter of a loved and loving God.

Would I tell YOU?

2008-12-10T06:33:00.007-05:00

God says (as paraphrased by E. Peterson),
"If I get hungry, do you think I'd tell you?
All creation and its bounty are mine.
Do you think I feast on venison?
or drink draughts of goats' blood?
Spread for me a banquet of praise,
serve High God a feast of kept promises,
And call for help when you're in trouble—
I'll help you, and you'll honor me."

Some would say "always be on call for God." Be ready to drop whatever you're doing and do what needs to be done. I guess I would rather say "always be in tune with God." I know that following God will lead us out of our comfortable lives, but it is following God that takes us - not all the need we see around us.

I get concerned when I see people jumping in to meet every need they see. I also get concerned when I see people sitting on their duff doing nothing....Lest is seem as though I am sitting here in judgement....These two extremes are where I often see myself, so as I write, I write to ME most of all.

Following Christ is a package deal. We follow Christ and are a part of the Church. We have access to the Father through the Son. We are called to use that access. We are called to seek Him - and that's not a process you can microwave. We are also called to journey with others, so we pursue friendship - again, not a microwavable venture. Lastly, we are called to make a difference in the world. Maybe today that means fighting oppression for someone who is unable to fight; maybe tomorrow it means a smile and conversation. It's impossible to say what it looks like on a day to day basis, I think staying connected to God (who does not NEED us, but chooses us) is the key. So how do you do that?

Advent Action: Evaluate your pattern for seeking God. Do you have a good balance of quiet, community and mission? Where can you make changes?

Advent Tuesday, December 9th

2008-12-09T05:54:00.001-05:00

I was talking with a friend at a basketball game last night. She and I were commiserating that we have not bought one Christmas gift yet. I just can't seem to get into it this year. So as I was watching tv last night and they mentioned that there are only 17 days left, I felt a panicky feeling go through me. I know these upcoming days will be filled before I know it. My prayer is that I keep in tune with God's heart as I move forward. I want to see him in the everyday. I long for new meaning.

"Advent is about waiting and wanting. All of the Advent people are waiting - Zechariah and Elizabeth are waiting, Mary and Joseph are waiting, Simeon and Anna are waiting. We are invited to wait, to want. We are invited to get in touch with our longing for someone or something to come along and bring new meaning into our lives.

Jesus, God made man, was born in ordinary surroundings so there is no need to look for the extraordinary, the spectacular or the miraculous during Advent. God can be found where we live; in our kitchens, at our tables, in our places of work, in each others' faces. There was no prior publicity regarding his coming, no expensive advertising, no claim to privilege, just a silent, humble entry. Jesus' coming into any life will be similar. Be ready to be surprised. We tend to look for Jesus everywhere, except in the place where the incarnation took place: our flesh. Incarnation means, taking flesh, and by taking flesh, Christ crawled into ordinary life and invites us to meet Him there."

Advent Action: The letters to the early church are so encouraging. Take some time to send a letter to a friend who could benefit from your encouraging words.

Advent Entry, Monday, December 8th

2008-12-08T06:50:00.003-05:00

Sacred Space
When John the Baptist heard in prison what the Messiah was doing, he sent word by his disciples and said to him, "Are you the one who is to come, or are we to wait for another?" (Matthew 11:2-11). There is real comfort in this story. John the Baptist, the powerful, austere man who held such a sway among the Jews, still had his moments of darkness. Imprisoned in Herod's dungeon, he wondered, "Am I a fool? Is this all there is? Was I wrong about Jesus?" He does not just brood on the question. He sends messengers to Jesus. Jesus does not send back reassurances; he just asks the messengers to open their eyes and see the evidence of Jesus' life.

Lord, in my moments of doubt and darkness, may I fill my eyes with you. Are you the one, Lord? I am staking my life on it. I am not waiting for anyone else. Politicians, gurus and celebrities come and go, with promises and new solutions, but I am sticking with you. You show me how to make this world better, by tackling suffering and sickness, and reaching out to the unfortunate. In my doubts and difficulties I fill my eyes with the sight of you, your person and your works.

Advent Action: As we walk with God and pay attention, our faith grows. Take some time to write three examples of God's faithfulness to you.

Second Sunday of Advent

2008-12-07T06:50:00.000-05:00

Psalm 24
Of David. A psalm.
1 The earth is the LORD's, and everything in it,
the world, and all who live in it;

2 for he founded it upon the seas
and established it upon the waters.

3 Who may ascend the hill of the LORD ?
Who may stand in his holy place?

4 He who has clean hands and a pure heart,
who does not lift up his soul to an idol
or swear by what is false. [a]

5 He will receive blessing from the LORD
and vindication from God his Savior.

6 Such is the generation of those who seek him,
who seek your face, O God of Jacob. [b]
Selah

7 Lift up your heads, O you gates;
be lifted up, you ancient doors,
that the King of glory may come in.

8 Who is this King of glory?
The LORD strong and mighty,
the LORD mighty in battle.

9 Lift up your heads, O you gates;
lift them up, you ancient doors,
that the King of glory may come in.

10 Who is he, this King of glory?
The LORD Almighty—
he is the King of glory.
Selah

Advent Day 7

2008-12-06T09:41:00.004-05:00

Words from Nouwen regarding the False Self:
"The two main enemies of the spiritual life (are) anger and greed. They are the inner side of a secular life, the sour fruits of our worldly dependencies. What else is anger than the impulsive response to the experience of being deprived? When my sense of self depends on what others say of me, anger is a quite natural reaction to a critical word. And when my sense of self depends on what I can acquire, greed flares up when my desires are frustrated. Thus greed and anger are the brother and sister of a false self fabricated b the social compulsions of an unredeemed world..."

Lord, renew our minds. Help us to find our TRUE identity in you. Help us to see beyond this world and all that seems to distract. Help us find ourselves in the shelter and safety of your wings. Amen

Advent Action: Consider forgoing all the world's distractions for a day; television, telephone, internet, negative comments about anyone, music in the car, busy work of any kind, reading magazines, etc... Replace that time with meditating on God''s word.

I love Liz - Advent 6

2008-12-05T06:30:00.005-05:00

My goal yesterday was to just to listen to God...

We had a disagreement. Actually, we disagreed from 2.45p to 4.45p. Sometimes I don't know how it happens. There is this girl that I love with the protective love only a mom possesses and yet there are times...

We were both in the wrong. We disagreed - loudly.

After she went to her room, I sat at the table. So much for sensing God's leading. I began to pray. Why can't following Christ be less messy? I guess because then we wouldn't need God.

Mysteriously God stepped in. Anger gone. Apologies made. Relationship mended.

I love my girl. And I am thankful that God is leading our lives.

Advent Action: It is said that the original Christmas tree grew out of an evergreen that was part of the setting for the medieval moraity plays acted out on the steps of churches. This tree was used to represent the garden of Eden. Consider creating a small tree on which you place apples (or their representation) to remind you of the failings you wish to avoid this Advent period. The apples, of course, stand for the fruit of the tree of good and evil with which Satan tempted Adam and Eve.

Advent Day 5

2008-12-04T07:39:00.005-05:00

This weekend at New Hope Paul will be teaching about Mary's role in the kingdom. I love this story. I love that God chooses to use VERY ordinary people to be a part of what he is doing. I think a lot of times I miss it. I think a lot of times I go through what I think is just an ordinary day and I am unaware of how God is using me or wants to use me.

Today, I am simply trying to listen.

Advent Action: This Advent, be generous in your prayers for others and their well being.

Advent Day 4

2008-12-03T06:31:00.005-05:00

Advent Action: Find a scriptural motto to add to your Advent preparation calendar. Hold these words in your heart each day.

Luke 8.16-17
But Jesus called the children to him and said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. I tell you the truth, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it."

Advent 3 God is Amazing & Worthy of Trust

2008-12-02T06:24:00.006-05:00

Psalm 33

Let the godly sing for joy to the Lord;
it is fitting for the pure to praise him.
Praise the Lord with melodies on the lyre;
make music for him on the ten-stringed harp.
Sing a new song of praise to him;
play skillfully on the harp, and sing with joy.
For the word of the Lord holds true,
and we can trust everything he does.
He loves whatever is just and good;
the unfailing love of the Lord fills the earth.

The Lord merely spoke,
and the heavens were created.
He breathed the word,
and all the stars were born.
He assigned the sea its boundaries
and locked the oceans in vast reservoirs.
Let the whole world fear the Lord,
and let everyone stand in awe of him.
For when he spoke, the world began!
It appeared at his command.

The Lord frustrates the plans of the nations
and thwarts all their schemes.
But the Lord’s plans stand firm forever;
his intentions can never be shaken.

What joy for the nation whose God is the Lord,
whose people he has chosen as his inheritance.

The Lord looks down from heaven
and sees the whole human race.
From his throne he observes
all who live on the earth.
He made their hearts,
so he understands everything they do.
The best-equipped army cannot save a king,
nor is great strength enough to save a warrior.
Don’t count on your warhorse to give you victory—
for all its strength, it cannot save you.

But the Lord watches over those who fear him,
those who rely on his unfailing love.
He rescues them from death
and keeps them alive in times of famine.

We put our hope in the Lord.
He is our help and our shield.
In him our hearts rejoice,
for we trust in his holy name.
Let your unfailing love surround us, Lord,
for our hope is in you alone.

Advent 2 -The Root of Patience

2008-12-01T08:29:00.009-05:00

Matthew 6:31-33 (The Message)
If God gives such attention to the appearance of wildflowers—most of which are never even seen—don't you think he'll attend to you, take pride in you, do his best for you? What I'm trying to do here is to get you to relax, to not be so preoccupied with getting, so you can respond to God's giving. People who don't know God and the way he works fuss over these things, but you know both God and how he works. Steep your life in God-reality, God-initiative, God-provisions. Don't worry about missing out. You'll find all your everyday human concerns will be met.

"The French author Simone Weil writes in her notebook: "Waiting patiently in expectation is the foundation of the spiritual life." Without patience our expectation degenerates into wishful thinking. Patience comes from the word "patior" which means "to suffer."...What seems a hindrance becomes a way; what seems an obstacle becomes a door; what seems a misfit becomes a cornerstone." Henri JM Nouwen, Out of Solitude

It's always kind of freaky when God speaks right into my world. As little as 12 hours ago, I was writing in my journal about what I 'wished.' My wishes primarily run along the lines of comfort, happiness, laughter. With today's light of day, I see the wisdom in being patient. Maybe those things I wish for will be replaced by deeper realities - contentment, joy, hope.

I want to be an active person of patience. Advent Action: Prepare the way of Christmas by making an Advent calendar of proposed contributions of service to others or positive changes in your own spiritual life. Remember to leave room for God's input.

Thanksgiving brings Advent Day 1

2008-11-30T08:48:00.011-05:00

This Thanksgiving we visited Steve's side of the family. My in-laws treated us to a night at Great Wolf Lodge. I had forgotten how much fun water could be.

It's amazing how fast time flies especially when you don't see people often. My oldest nephew (on that side) brought his girlfriend, my niece is driving, and my other nephews are already 8 & 6 - wow! To you, probably no big deal, to me, another sign that time keeps moving on...I am blessed to be a part of this family.

With Thanksgiving past, we look toward Christmas. Today is the first day of Advent. I found this morning that I cannot merely read the advent scriptures and expect fireworks. I am reminded that God often speaks to me in a whisper. So I am going back to quiet myself.

I ran across a book this year called, "Advent & Christmas Wisdom from Henri J.M. Nouwen." Since I am a fan, I decided to use this as an accompaniment to the scriptures.

Here is an excerpt from Day 1, entitled, In the Midst of Our Dark World,
"I keep expecting loud an impressive event to convince me and others of God's saving power....Our temptation is to be distracted by them...When I have no eyes for the small signs of God's presence-the smile of a baby, the carefree play of children, the words of encouragement and gestures of love offered by friends-I will always remain tempted to despair.

The small child of Bethlehem, the unknown man of Nazareth, the rejected preacher, the naked man on the cross, HE asks for my full attention. The work of our salvation takes place in the midst of a world that continues to shout, scream, and overwhelm us with its claims and promises.

Advent action: Today I will look for one small sign that God is present in my daily life. I will give thanks for his presence. If he is absent, I will resolve to find out why."

Conversation on Synonyms

2008-11-25T20:14:00.002-05:00

If you're not a usual peruser of the Kingdom Grace blog, today might be a good day to check it out. There's an interesting conversation that was started yesterday about synonyms.

Here's a little snipet:
"Postmodern does not equal relativist.

Modern does not equal christian.

Mystery does not equal doubt.

Missional does not equal social gospel.

Inclusion does not equal pluralism.

Justice does not equal democrat.

Christian does not equal republican."

Thanks, Grace. You have a great way of bringing things out.

Lectionary

2008-11-23T16:16:00.009-05:00

Today at New Hope we finished up a sermon series that leads us into the Advent Season. We've been tracking the journey of the Israelites - out of Egypt, Sinai, Jerusalem, then Babylon. As we ended today's gathering we left the Israelites along the river, again crying out to God for help.

Over the course of the weekend, I talked to a number of people who are dealing with situations in their lives. Some have to do with life changes, some are too painful to mention, some are "everything and nothing." Isn't that like life? On the one hand, it makes me sad to walk through the crap of life with friends; on the other hand, it makes me hopeful that this could be a time when we see Christ break in in amazing ways.

Personally, I feel the tug of Advent like never before. I have a desire to be quiet and let God break in and do what he does. But I know how I am...I drift. I have intentions of seeking God, but then I sleep in or overschedule myself, or...you name it, I do it.

This year, in attempt to keep a proper perspective, I have decided to participate in the reading the lectionary. The lectionary is a basically a three year Bible reading plan that can be joined at any time. You can find out more here. At that same site, you can also subscribe in a reader, have the scriptures emailed to you daily, or post them on your blog.

God's word, as close as our fingertips, pretty cool. Oh, yea, you can also just pick up your Bible and read them (We'll have the scriptures posted in New Hope's bulletin) - whatever works for you.

Thanksgiving with the Austins

2008-11-17T23:19:00.005-05:00

If you don't know who Jon & Angela Austin are, let me just give you the brief lowdown. They lead worship most Sundays at New Hope. They moved here months ago thinking that they would only be here temporarily, but so far God seems to be keeping them here. They hear the cry of the hurting - especially the cries in Youngstown and Africa.

Rather than jump to the next place, they've decided to stay and grow where God has planted them. God led them to the Kingdom Meal Ministry and they have grown to love and develop friendships with many of the people who come there to receive food.

That brings us to Thanksgiving. Jon & Ang felt led to invite their new friends to have dinner with them on Thanksgiving. Because they knew it could potentially be a larger group, they plan to have the meal at New Hope. Including some New Hopers who are planning to be a part, they already have 35 or so people planning to come. They had an unbelievable response of 27 RSVP's at Kingdom Meal yesterday.

I'd like to ask you to pray for this time. May it be a time where God's grace and peace flows. Also, if you feel led in anyway to help out, I'm sure they would appreciate the help. And if you don't have plans that are set in stone, you are also welcome to come. You can email Ang at novembermom2b@yahoo.com.

Light Up Pittsburgh

2008-11-14T11:30:00.007-05:00

If you're looking for the Hopper Family next Friday evening (November 21st), you'll find us in Pittsburgh. We don't have a ton of family traditions, but this is one of the few. We like to go to Pittsburgh on the night of their annual "Light Up Night." If you're into downtowns and don't mind a crowd, let us know and we'll try to connect by cell phone and watch some fireworks together. There is a lot to do and see at Light Up. You can check out the festivities here.

Reflections on the Weekend at New Hope

2008-11-10T09:37:00.005-05:00

As I look back on this past weekend's gatherings, one of the things that I loved about them was hearing the answers to prayer we've seen since beginning the wailing wall. One woman is thankful her brother (whose name she posted on the wall when we first started using it as a wailing wall) is safely home now from Iraq.

Another woman read a card she had put up months ago that said, "my marriage." She picked that card, read it and she and her husband walked together to the foot of the cross to lay it down. It was so beautiful watching them stand in front of the cross, arm in arm. I wanted to stand up and cheer. God is so good.

I cleaned up the room last night. I boxed up all the cards, notes, pictures...didn't really give it a second thought, actually. It's just what needed to be done. Of course we move on with life...My prayer is that we keep looking for the needs around us, that we keep listening to God's voice and doing no less and no more than he directs, that we continue to better understand the heart who loves us more than anyone.

Here are some thoughts following this weekend's gatherings at New Hope. Anne, thanks for sharing...

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in my church at home, we have this place in the back of the sanctuary that we call the "wailing wall." people are encouraged to write things that break their heart, as well as break God's heart, and post these on the wailing wall. we've been doing this for a very long time, and over time this wall has gotten to be completely covered with pieces of paper, pictures, money, newspaper articles....

today in church we had sort of a reflection service where we took these things off of the wailing wall, read them to the congregation, and then placed these at the foot of the cross standing at the front of the room. this was an extremely powerful service to me. to hear these things spoken out loud was, well, unexplainable. there was one in particular that really struck me...the piece of paper urged people to pray for a young boy's family...this boy, 8 years old, in 3rd grade, took his own life.

what?

it breaks my heart that this young boy, hardly even starting his life, found that he had no hope...
at an age where you have all the hope in the world.
it was so bad that he took his own life.

what?

i read a note that said to pray for those children who are abandoned and neglected, that they would find hope. invisible children comes to mind....children who are affected by the sex trade comes to mind...
these things break my heart.

there was another note that stuck out to me.. it encouraged us to pray not only for those being abused, but those who were abusing. i think this is something that we often forget to pray for. we see those people suffering, those abused, neglected but we don't think to pray for those who are oppressing, abusing, neglecting, abandoning. God loves these people just as much as he loves those who are hurt. so should we.

my pastor used an illustration he heard from David Crowder...distinguishing justice from compassion..
picture you and some friends sitting by a river, enjoying a beautiful day and having a picnic. all of a sudden you see people, floating downstream, drowning. you jump in and pull those people to safety. after a while, you keep seeing more and more people floating down the river, drowning. you continue to attempt to rescue these people but after a while you decide that you need to go up stream to figure out how so many people are drowning and to stop whoever is making this happen.
this is the difference between justice and compassion. you have compassion on those who are drowning and you make those attempts to rescue them, but you also must act with justice and do something to stop the oppression.

i have such a hard time with this. reason being, i feel as though i am so small, so unimportant...how can i stop children from being sold into the sex trade? how can i rescue the homeless, feed the hungry...i'm only one person.
i think this is something that many struggle with. it's so intimidating.

how can i make the difference? how can i be the difference?"

Wailing Wall

2008-11-05T20:35:00.006-05:00

There is no question that this world is messed up. You don't have to look far to see hurt, oppression, hunger, loneliness....these are the things that break God's heart.

We are a group of people who refuse to sit safe in our 'church cocoon' while the world around us suffers. God has given us the privilege and responsibility to act on his behalf and help the hurting and fight injustice we see around us.

This weekend we will have three meaningful gatherings at New Hope. (Parents, please bring your school aged kids in the main room to share in these gatherings - there will be nursery and preschool classes as usual).

For months we've made use of the Wailing Wall to post issues, situations, needs that break our heart and break the heart of Jesus. We will take some time this weekend to refresh the wall and offer these needs and offer ourselves to Jesus. I'm so thankful to be a part of a group of people who desire to make a difference in this world.

The Conspiracy Begins

2008-11-03T04:12:00.001-05:00

The following letter was posted in this week's bulletin at New Hope:

"New Hopers,
I want to take a minute and share some thoughts about where we’re headed this winter. We’ve been talking about the fact that God resides with the hurting & hears the cries of the oppressed. When we listen and act on the cries we hear, we are also with God. We become his hands and feet to a hurting world.

This weekend begins November. Before we know it, Christmas will be here. Some of us around here have been asking some new questions this year. Rather than becoming over-tired and over-extended by over-indulging and over-spending, what would it look like to turn the ‘Consumer Approach to Christmas’ on its end? What would it look like to focus more on spending TIME with one another rather than spending money on one another? How could we strategically shift our spending to allow us to GIVE more?

Over the next few weeks, you’ll hear us talk about the Advent Conspiracy. It’s a way we can celebrate Christmas the way it was intended:
With Jesus for Jesus.

We want to put an end to feeling like Christmas won’t work if we don’t buy everything on the list. We are actively resisting a culture that guilts us into overspending. We want to recklessly and fully love Jesus and the hurting people around us.

This week we introduce our Christmas Catalog. It is one of the tools to let you know some of the many needs that exist locally and globally.

Join us as we walk away from Stress-mas, Impersonal-mas, Checklist-mas and begin to worship Jesus fully this holiday season.

Paul"

Now, if you're anything like me, you may read that letter and think several different thoughts.
1. Yes, it would be nice to do things differently, but is it even possible?
2. I feel guilty because I SHOULD want to do things differently, but actually I want to keep them the same.
3. Will my small contribution really make a difference?
4. I don't even know where to begin.
5. My family is DEFINITELY not going to go for this.

But, here's what I wonder...what if we just took whatever step of obedience that God is asking us to take? For some that may mean purchasing a cow for a family in a third world country. For others it may mean planning intentional meals with people in need. For others it may mean taking a trip with your family instead of buying gifts. For others it may mean seeking out gifts that encourage time spent together, like restaurant gift cards with a date to go TOGETHER.

I don't know how God will lead you and that is the beauty of the Advent Conspiracy. As we all strive together to: Worship Fully, Spend Less, Give More, and Love Fully, God steps in and changes us each individually AND as a church.

Check out more on the Advent Conspiracy at adventconspiracy.org or on the conspiracy's pages on facebook or myspace.

God Chooses to Need a Body

2008-10-30T15:50:00.001-04:00

I've been thinking about the people that God uses. In the Old Testament we see Moses, who by his own admission was not worthy. And yet God said to Moses that he would be 'like God' to Pharaoh. We also see David, the 'man after God's own heart,' but David had his share of screw ups and regrets and returning to God. We see Noah, who's post-flood doesn't exactly fit that of a fine, upstanding man...

If we look at the advent story we see that God chose to use Mary to be the mother of Jesus - a young girl to mother the son of God. We see Joseph. A carpenter called to be the earthly father to the Son of God. Shepherds called to be the first ones on the scene.

Three decades later: Jesus calls fisherman. Jesus spreads his message through a Samaritan woman who had (up until the moment she encountered Jesus) lived a very sketchy life. Jesus used a tax collector (Matthew), a former prostitute (Mary), a former killer of Christians (Paul).

And there are many other examples. When I look at all the examples it makes me see that I fit pretty well into the crew. I fit right in as one who is flawed, who hasn't always been the person I wish I were, who continues to mess up and who spends a lot of time feeling like I'm not up to the task. And yet, Jesus uses us to be his body.

So, these thoughts lead me to questions about the body. How can we, New Hope, become the healthiest body possible? How do we better spur one another along toward good deeds? What does it mean to truly love one another to the point of laying our lives down for one another? What are the things we need to do within the body to show the world that Jesus is the one who makes all the difference in the world?

Post Christian France

2008-10-30T01:44:00.002-04:00

About a week ago, 20 or so New Hopers hung out for the evening with Dave & Carolita Fraley. The Fraley's have spent the last 30 years as missionaries in France. We had a great time together eating, laughing, praying, and hearing about the ways in which God is building his church in France.

I was struck by many of the stories Dave & Carolita shared. They spoke of how important it is for the people to whom they minister to see their love above all else. They talked about how no preaching or program could outdo just merely loving the people they came into contact with.

They shared that many have given up on France because there seems to be so little fruit, but then they went on to share some of the fruit. They talked about people that have grasped God's grace and are living in that grace in amazing ways. There are a handful of multi-cultural pastors that are full of faith and God's love and are living that love to everyone they meet. There is one church building in particular that houses 3 churches in it. They gather at different times to make the best use of the space and still they are running out of space.

They shared how many of the people they've encountered in France live life very cognitively. They are not apt to be swung by an emotional event. They also shared that in France, Sunday is a day for family. So to work within the culture, they have begun having Saturday night dinners and conversation. Saturday keeps Sunday free for family. And the conversations allow people to think through things and see God in it.

Dave & Carolita ask that we continue to pray for God's mission in France. In particular for the leaders who are rising up to be the second generation leaders.

I am a TERRIBLE Relaxer

2008-10-24T21:19:00.004-04:00

Did you ever feel like you simply couldn't get off the couch? Like a couple days of your life had sucked the lifeblood out of you? That's kind of how I feel today. I've had a couple of super-busy days filled with both good and challenging things. Today has been a day of rest and I have made the most of it - if by made the most of it you mean tried to rest and sit around a lot. When Steve got home from work, I told him I successfully did almost nothing this entire day. He said that's what most people call 'Sunday'.

You know what, I'm not good at relaxing. I need it; I know I do. I see the signs: My girls have to repeat themselves over and over for me to catch what they said...I am irritable...I have an inability to make healthy choices...I zone out...I'm tired even when I've had enough sleep...

I am seeing today the genius in God's design of rhythm and sabbath. I am trying to discover how to make the most of it. However, all day long I have swung between guilt in feeling like I should be doing something and a complete lack of energy. Why is it that I struggle with rest? I am trying too hard to please people that I have forgotten how to please God in this area? I want to learn how to redeem rest in my own life. I do not believe in a dualistic view of life and spirituality and yet...

I wonder what all it takes to worship God through rest. Planning for it and taking regular time for it. Realizing that sometimes extra-sabbath is required. What else? How can I learn to offer God my relaxation (or any aspect of pleasure, for that matter)?

Cool Web Site

2008-10-24T18:03:00.001-04:00

Pandora.com is a great site for listening to music on your computer:

New Hope is being the Church

2008-10-20T17:13:00.006-04:00

As I listen to Mickey Mouse Playhouse in the background, I am hanging out with Micah while Paul and Stacy are at the second Chemo session (thank God for Chemo & thank God for Mickey Mouse Clubhouse…) & reflecting on the weekend. This weekend has been full of opportunities to ‘be the Church’ together.

If you’ve been around New Hope at all in the last few months, you know that we’ve been walking through the difficult diagnosis of Hodgkin’s in our lead pastor, Paul. He has had a biopsy, faced mortality, tumor removed, diagnosis given, insurance dropped, recovered from surgery, head shaved, and now he is on Chemo treatment number 2. In a couple hours it will be 2 down, 10 to go. We have watched and prayed as people we love walk through a season filled with uncertainty, frustration, God’s faithfulness, unexpected blessings, and everything in between.

This weekend, I was struck by how Paul and Stacy (and Rebecca, Jacob & Micah) are loved by all of you. I watched as a gifted group of people took the lead on a benefit, and many others came in to serve in a bunch of different ways. To everyone – from the person who sold tickets to all their friends to those who worked tirelessly for hours on this event, I just want to say what a beautiful expression of love that was. None of us can physically walk in Paul and Stacy’s shoes right now, but we can follow God’s lead and be his hands and feet. There have been sooo many ways people have helped: with meals, cards, phone calls, lawn mowing --- and many more . I feel as though God is using this situation to teach us to hear the cries of others and learn to be his hands and feet on a regular basis.

The second beautiful example of New Hope ‘being the Church’, was at Second Harvest on Saturday. About 30 people bagged 3,000 bags of corn flakes that will (within a couple weeks) be in the hands of people who need them. I was struck by the camaraderie and friendship I saw. The goal was to help out an organization that is doing a lot of good in the Valley; friendship was the beautiful byproduct. It was neat to go to the gatherings on Sunday and see folks who (previous to Second Harvest) had never spoken to each other now sharing friendship. Worshipping with music on the weekend has new depth when time has been spent during the week worshipping through serving. I look forward to many more opportunities to worship together OUTSIDE New Hope’s walls.

The third and final example I witnessed this weekend came because of a death of a Son/Brother of some New Hopers. I have watched as individuals have comforted, cried with, hugged, prayed for, fed, and organized on behalf of Barb Witherstine & John and Melissa Ciavarella. Today after the funeral, New Hope will host the funeral dinner. I’ve already seen a team of people there to set up tables and another team bringing in food for the family. Again, we cannot walk in their shoes, but we can walk as closely as God leads. I am so thankful to see people step in.

The cries are endless. Our role is to listen and act as God leads. None of us can do it all – nor is that God’s desire. Our role is to ask God to help us hear the cries, move us out of our comfort/our schedule/our plan and put us in a place where we hear the cry of those outside our walls and in who are hurting. God desires that we hear what he hears. Just as we learned in the teaching this weekend, when we are with the hurting, the hungry, the oppressed, we are with God.

Reflections on They Like Jesus, but Not the Church

2008-10-15T07:13:00.014-04:00

My 12 year old daughter thought it was the best study we've ever done and she is going back through and reading the book. My 14 year old daughter felt like it was lacking because she feels like New Hope is so different from all other churches (and she couldn't get past Dan Kimball's hair).

For some of my friends it was an opportunity to look at how the church has oppressed women in the past and the impact that had. God is healing.

During this teaching series I also read a book called "The War of Art." I HIGHLY recommend the book - just may bring out the writer in you; however, it contains some 'spiritual' views to which I do not ascribe. I liked being open to a book that I do not 100% agree with. One of the things that struck me most about the teaching series is that it is our responsibility to figure out what we believe and why we believe it. The days of blind following are over. We are called to be thoughtful theologians.

Some New Hopers see that we - as a church - need to repent...Myself included. We need to own up to the narrow-mindedness that has divided people and learn to respect and love everyone - whether they challenge our belief system or not. God changes hearts. It is our job to love.

My hope is that the end of the teaching series is NOT the end of the conversation. As we talk & as we listen, we learn. I love learning with all of you.

East to West

2008-10-13T09:31:00.002-04:00

It seems like the reminder of God's faithfulness to me always comes right at the perfect time. In the past it has often been through a Godly mentor who always had a knack for reminding me of my TRUE identity in Christ. That friend has since moved away and I was just thinking this morning how I could really use one of those 'reminder talks.'

Then I happened on this song. Hopefully, it encourages you as it did me.

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Here are the Lyrics:
East to West by Casting Crowns

Here I am, Lord, and I'm drowning in your sea of forgetfulness
The chains of yesterday surround me
I yearn for peace and rest
I don't want to end up where You found me
And it echoes in my mind, keeps me awake tonight
I know You've cast my sin as far as the east is from the west
And I stand before You now as though I've never sinned
But today I feel like I'm just one mistake away from You leaving me this way

Jesus, can You show me just how far the east is from the west
'cause I can't bear to see the man I've been come rising up in me again
In the arms of Your mercy I find rest
'cause You know just how far the east is from the west
From one scarred hand to the other

I start the day, the war begins, endless reminding of my sin
Time and time again Your truth is drowned out by the storm I'm in
Today I feel like I'm just one mistake away from You leaving me this way

I know You've washed me white, turned my darkness into light
I need Your peace to get me through, to get me through this night
I can't live by what I feel, but by the truth Your word reveals
I'm not holding on to You, but You're holding on to me
You're holding on to me

Jesus, You know just how far the east is from the west
I don't have to see the man I've been come rising up in me again
In the arms of Your mercy I find rest
'cause You know just how far the east is from the west
From one scarred hand to the other
One scarred hand to the other
From one scarred hand to the other

I love Pittsburgh

2008-10-03T08:24:00.003-04:00

If you're anything like me, "getting out of dodge" can sometimes be a helpful activity. Here is a link to some great, free stuff in Pittsburgh.

Grab a friend and take an adventure. Heck, if you don't have a friend, call me. I'm always up for a trip to Pitt!

One Human Family

2008-09-29T12:01:00.003-04:00

God forgive us. God forgive me.

Penny's story of being treated like crap by people who claim to love God ripped into my heart. I cannot stand to see someone hurt. I especially can't stand to see someone hurt at the hands of people who are called to love.

What has happened to us? How did "Christians" get so far from your mandate of Love God, Love Others.

It's so simple and yet we bring our own biases in, our own "righteous anger." And people are hurt.

God, teach us to love. Teach us to walk alongside of our fellow humans in this 'One Human Family.' Help us to focus on caring for the poor and oppressed, loving each person as if they were our own child. God give us your eyes and your heart. God Help Us.

Why the Invisible Fences?

2008-09-28T08:39:00.003-04:00

I spend a good portion of each day thinking about relationships. Wondering what works, what helps, what God desires, what our responsibility is...so when read Dave and Betsy's most recent post, it (again) got my mind going.

Check it out here.

Your Yellow Pages Can Help the Rescue Mission

2008-09-22T14:08:00.006-04:00

The Rescue Mission uses these WRTA coupons (found on page 10 of the green section in the newest phonebook) to get people where they need to be. If you could cut the coupon out of your big yellow book, bring it to New Hope and put it in the joy (offering) box, they would really appreciate it.

Thanks!

Does the Church Opress Women?

2008-09-19T09:22:00.007-04:00

This week we continue our "They like Jesus..." series. If you haven't had a chance to listen to last week's, you can listen here).

In my last post I shared how God is dealing with me in the areas of judgmentalism.

I am interested in what YOU think. Has God been speaking to you during this series? What have you found interesting? Strange? Challenging?

This week we ask the question: Is the Church Male-Dominated, does it Oppress Women?

'Should lead to interesting discussion. Please remember, it is not our goal to make identical robots out of each other. It is our goal to learn to communicate in meaningful ways, while ALWAYS loving and respecting one another.

See you this weekend!

Is the Church Negative, Judgmental, and Political?

2008-09-10T09:31:00.007-04:00

This week we head into week two of our series, They Like Jesus, but Not the Church. This is quickly becoming one of my favorite series we've ever done. Thanks, Paul, for leading us this way.

Back in high school, I used to think that I was a terrible Christian because I never wanted to be lumped into the stereotype. I thought maybe that meant that I was ashamed of Jesus or something. Being 20 years past, it's hard to say what I was feeling in high school - maybe I did want to come across as 'cool' or something, I don't know. The thing is, as I have aged, my aversion to being associated with Christians has continued. And I KNOW that I am not ashamed of Jesus and the difference he has made in my life. He is the best friend I have ever had.

But I must say, I am ashamed of how many people portray Christ. It bugs me when people use Jesus or the bible to support their own agenda. I guess that may be why I so often stay away from political discussions. More than once I have found myself in a conversation where I see a Christian saying things in support of their candidate or party that are in direct opposition to how Jesus tells us to treat each other. It's almost as if the Love you neighbor as yourself, goes out the window in an election year.

And then I go on to think about other labels christians have - like negativity. You know what, a lot of Christians are negative. I don't get it, I really don't. We live in the most amazing time in history. We can learn, we can laugh, and we can make a difference in this world. I think for so long christianity has been about sin management and getting our ticket into heaven that we have missed the amazing things God does in our midst every day. I'm not a pollyanna; don't get me wrong. I know the world has problems, but I know that even in the mess - whatever the mess is - we have the opportunity to see God in it.

So the last label for this next week is that christians are judgmental. Sadly, I know this too often is the case. It's so crazy, ya know? Everyone who follows Christ knows they are broken. We all have struggles. And yet, we each have biases toward what we think is "really bad." I guess one of the areas I struggle with is in judging christians. I have my own stereotype as to how a christian should be: compassionate, loving to all, welcoming to all, hopeful, trusting. And when I see other attitudes displayed, I struggle. Most recently I have been trying to see everyone the way Christ may see them - on a journey, making choices every minute of everyday. I am trying to see Christ even in the 'christiany' stuff I don't agree with.

Right now, I'm not real comfortable being called a christian. I think we have some work to do to redeem that word. I prefer to be thought of as a follower of Jesus. One who is striving to follow the way of Christ. One who is not preoccupied with the little details that don't matter, but is able to see God in each and every person I meet. That's my goal.

They Like Jesus Begins This Weekend

2008-09-04T22:44:00.003-04:00

This week we begin the 6-week series "They Like Jesus, But Not the Church." I've been spending some time in the book this week (if you need a book, you can pick one up this weekend on the back table). This is going to be a great series.

One of the great things about this study is that it lends itself so well to discussion. Many New Hopers are involved in weekly conversations that allow us to learn from each other and grow together.

If you are not currently part of a conversation, this is a great time to join in. If you want help connecting with others, please let me know.

In addition, if you feel led to gather people together during this time for a discussion over coffee or lunch or one night a week, and would like help getting started, let me know.

You can call me (330.565.4167) at any time during this series. This is going to be an amazing chapter in New Hope's history.

The Other Edible Hit of the Picnic

2008-09-03T20:55:00.001-04:00

This - I hear - is one of the best salads you will ever eat. I wouldn't know because it was all gone by the time I got there - always a good sign.

Thanks for the recipe, Polly!
SUNFLOWER SALAD
1 – 16 oz. cole slaw or 5 cups cabbage shredded
(bagged slaw works well)
2 pkg. Ramen Noodles – uncooked (do not use creamy style)
½ cup sliced almonds – toasted
½ cup sunflower seeds (out of the shell)
1 bunch of green onions – chopped fine
Dressing:
1 cup vegetable oil
½ cup sugar
1/3 cup white vinegar
2 pkgs. Seasoning from noodles

Toast almonds by placing on cookie sheet and bake for 5-10 minutes at 350 degrees.
Break up noodles in small pieces. Combine all ingredients for the salad. If making ahead
Of time, add the nuts before serving. Mix all ingredients for the dressing. Add the dressing
At serving. Note: If making the dressing the night before, it gets thick in the refrigerator.
Make sure is mixed well before putting on salad. The easiest thing to use to mix the dressing
In is a bottle for salad dressing mix.

Beautiful Evening, Beautiful Company

2008-09-02T15:01:00.004-04:00

I just want to say thanks to everyone for making Saturday Night's Picnic such a great time. It's amazing how some good food, little bocce, volleyball and corn hole can bring people together.

You can check out more photos on www.facebook.com. Just join the New Hope Community Group.

There were a couple recipes that stood out. One was Terri Duncko's Chocolate Peanut Butter Treats (Thanks, Terri!). You will find it below:

Chocolate Peanut Butter Treats
½ c. butter or margarine, softened
2/3 c. packed brown sugar
2 egg yolks
1 tsp. vanilla extract
1½ c. all-purpose flour
½ tsp. baking powder
½ tsp. salt
¼ tsp. baking soda

3 c. miniature marshmallows

Topping:

2/3 c. corn syrup
¼ c. butter or margarine
1 package (10 ounces) peanut butter chips
2 tsp. vanilla extract
2 c. crisp rice cereal
1 c. salted peanuts (optional)
1 c. plain M&M’s (I use the whole bag)
1 c. butterscotch chips (my addition)

In a mixing bowl, cream butter and brown sugar. Beat in egg yolks and vanilla. Combine the flour, baking powder, salt and baking soda; gradually add to the creamed mixture until mixture resembles coarse crumbs (do not over mix).

Press into a greased 13”x 9”x2’ glass baking dish. Bake at 350° for 12-14 min. or until golden brown. Immediately sprinkle with marshmallows; bake 2-3 min. longer or until marshmallows are puffed. Cool on a wire rack.

For topping, combine the corn syrup, butter, vanilla, and peanut butter chips in a saucepan. Cook and stir over medium heat until chips are melted and mixture is smooth. Remove from heat; stir in the cereal, nuts (if adding), and M&M’s. Add in butterscotch chips. Spread over crust. Cool before cutting. Yield: 2 dozen.

Update on some cool stuff

2008-08-21T21:10:00.004-04:00

Several months ago I blogged about my sister in law and friend who were beginning an after school program for a low income housing area near them. It's official "BLOC 25" begins in two weeks. Please pray for them as they help bring God's Kingdom to earth as they love on kids who desperately need it.

And...I just heard from John McBride, Sr. that a group of teens are going to minister at Second Harvest Food Bank this Saturday from 9-12. If you're interested and need details, give John a call at 330.779.0868.

The other cool thing I heard this week is that there is a family at New Hope that gave two large sums of money to two other New Hope families this week that needed it. I happened to talk to one of the recipients today and the gift was UNBELIEVABLY timely. How cool!

I bring all this up to say that I believe God is at work. I see it. I feel it. We are invited to take part or watch from the sidelines...

How versus Why

2008-08-15T17:38:00.005-04:00

I was talking with a couple New Hope women not too long ago. Both of them have grown children. They were reminding me again how quickly time flies. My girls are 12 and 14, so I know how quickly 14 years can fly by. They were saying to me what I say to a young mom who has children in diapers...keep watching because before you know it they'll be past all the little songs, past the potty training, past the princess dresses...

So..fast-forward a few days...Today I started listening to the audio version of Through Painted Deserts, by Donald Miller (also the author of Blue like Jazz). So far I love the book. It contains a few of my favorite things: friendship, traveling, and a Volkswagen bus. I didn't actually get very far in the book, but there was a line I heard that just keeps ringing in my ears. He asks the question, "is my 'how' validated by my 'why'?"

He says oftentimes people go through life trying to figure out the 'how'. How will I get a better job? How will I purchase my home? How will I get the stuff I want? Sometimes the better question is 'why'?

So, as I've been going through this day, I've been asking myself if my 'how' is validated by my 'why'. It's been interesting....Today it is helping me see God in everything. It is helping me see that ultimately life is about relationships. For me, there is no 'why' to point back to apart from God.

Let's face it, we can't all experience magical moments every second of every day, but there is something about lining your activity up with your why that seems to give even the mundane (like driving kids to volleyball practice) new meaning.